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[–]platochronic 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Tell her "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now". Either she'll ask why you haven't, or she'll just kiss you. I've never not had this line work with girls. It's gotta feel natural, like perhaps during a natural pause in a dialog. Or maybe after a laugh that comes for no apparent reason. She'll ask you , "what's so funny?" Or just a "what?" With a little giggle. That's the perfect time.
It might seem too indirect for some guys on this sub, but the girls I've been with have loved it. Girls want to be wanted and she thinks you've been fighting back a kiss, she'll only want it more and invite you in to kiss.
[–]Hambodian 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like this. Simple and straight to the point.
[–]palmerd21 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just. Do. It. There is no perfect moment.
[–]Oliek23 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just Do It
[–]MysteryVoter 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You've kissed your Mom, I bet. That proves you know how to begin.
She is probably just waiting for you get your courage up.
Here is something to motivate and hopefully inspire you: She probably won't wait for ever. Get in there and kiss her. Your lips won't fall off or anything like that. Once you kiss her, she'll send lots of signals for you to continue.
If she doesn't, no worry. You will have had some great practice.
[–]TheXXL 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I´m sorry to say that, but, there is no magic ritual that gives you the courage. You just have to do it. You can however, try to identify what is scaring you. I mean, what can happen in the worst case? Will she kill you? Does she have a jealous boyfriend waiting in close vicinity, ready to slit your throat just for trying? no.
The worst thing that can happen is that she very mildly rejects your kiss, by turning her head. She will most likely not even comment on that, so if you don´t make a big deal out of it, all will be fine. If you then try again later, you might run into another rejection, but i highly doubt that she will even reject you once. So go for it, she will love it.
[–]theburgermanz 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I understand where you come from. By setting the mood it makes it easier. Start by wrapping your arm around her , then kiss her on the forehead. After kissing her on the forehead, just look in her eyes! Now the mood should be set. All you have to do now is kiss her. Hopes this make it easier :) let me know how it goes
[–]WonderBoy59 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For me, whenever I realize I probably should have kissed her by now, is when I go for it. Better late than never and I've been complimented on specifically my timing before.
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