Seddit, messaging a girl on Facebook who doesn't know me

lasvegasfun · 2015-11-04T06:39:58+00:00

If you have mutual friends try to have them introduce you. If not send her a message saying some like "Hey I noticed we are from the same village and I wanted to introduce myself. My name is ______."

Linistmrx · 2015-11-04T10:52:15+00:00

If you met her at a bar or through a friend introducing you guys. You could go with the standard "Hey, my name is x. I wanna fuck you. Bla bla bla."

But text game is kinda different. If you go with the standard "Hey I'm x." You could get a response, but if shes attractive AF, she's probably getting those all the time, why the fuck would she answer just another chode trying to get in her pants? Anyway, try saying something that gets her attention, like: "We don't know each other, but I just noticed something crazy about you haha." (inciting curiosity) She'll probably respond with "Omg, what?" Then follow up with "We're from the same fucking small village, holy fuck. Haha. I'm x, let's fuck."

WavyBastard · 2015-11-04T04:18:34+00:00

Is she a complete stranger or do any of your friends or acquaintances know her?

sh0nuff · 2015-11-05T21:44:56+00:00

Most people share a few acquaintances anyway. You could always take a look at what events she's going to, that you know you'll be able to find her at (ie, avoid the club that houses 3000 ppl) then show up, and engage her organically as if you don't even know her. If there's no chemistry, move on.

Another FB open is to use a similar scenario. Either find an event she recently went to, or find out her hobbies from her page. If she likes going to the gym or running, these are two great opps. You can message her and say "you just popped up in my feed (if she's already a friend) or popped up in my suggested friends (if she's not) and say you recognized her from when you were out running or at the gym/event etc. Then engage normally and make small talk.

An alternative to this, which is more risky, is to pretend you know her as someone else that's you're really tight with, and talk to her like she missed an event you were at that you invited her to. When she responds with "???" you can keep the act up until you feign surprise. From that point, again, engage normally.

Title	Seddit, messaging a girl on Facebook who doesn't know me
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	5
Date	November 4, 2015 3:14 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3rg0v5/seddit_messaging_a_girl_on_facebook_who_doesnt/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/seddit-messaging-a-girl-on-facebook-who-doesnt.1397027 https://theredarchive.com/post/1397027

Comments