So in the past two months I have been on three different second dates with three different girls. One girl I met on a dating app, one at a bar, and one a friend set us up. All three girls seemed promising and interested in me at first. All three girls made out with me by at least the 2nd date. And yet all three ended up essentially rejected me after the second date. Two stopped returning my texts and one just straight up told me that she just wants to be friends.

It is frustrating because it seems things are going well and then suddenly the girls lose interest. It's clear that I'm doing some thing or some things wrong. I might never know exactly what it is though because I doubt the girls could tell me the real reason even if they wanted to. I don't think it is because I am a bad kisser but at this point I'm starting to question everything about my game. I know three times makes a pattern and I want to change the pattern.

I recently read the book Models and I am working on many of the principles in the book, such as non-neediness. I know that rejection is a part of dating and I am not going to quit, but I guess I just wanted to vent/ look for any encouragement.