how can I tell if I'm being too picky?

2015-12-29T18:58:39+00:00

If she's deliberately giving you shit beyond basic level shit testing, that's when I'd tell her to piss off

joshsway · 2015-12-29T20:38:32+00:00

Sounds to me like you are being way too picky from the tone of your post to be honest. Focus on getting the girl not winning a battle of shit tests.

2015-12-29T22:25:53+00:00

If you're not getting laid, then you are being too picky.

letsgetrandy · 2015-12-29T22:34:33+00:00

There is no line to draw.

Not putting up with bullshit means calling them out on their flaws, as much as anything else. Don't be mean about it, but you should always point out when someone is fucking up, so that they know they're fucking up. Eg: "why do you always turn into a brat when [that topic] comes up?" Or, "now, now... don't get all jealous on me."

penguin_says_slide · 2015-12-29T20:10:25+00:00

Never draw the line.

If the problem is her giving you shit, never give up. You'll be thrown shit all your life and every shit test you pass or fail is a huge learning experience. These extremely bitchy types of girls are like a God send. They'll shatter your frame to pieces, you wanting to 'draw the line' is your frame breaking, but you going back for more is what builds that shit-test-passing muscle.

Now, also use your brain. If you're on a date or if she's just spending time with you, by all means stay forever. However if you're having to approach her, bear in mind :

If she's getting annoyed approach after approach, don't overdo it so the cops need to come and pull you away.
If you've got other shit to do, like work or whatever and staying with her is hindering that, fuck it and prioritize.

Title	how can I tell if I'm being too picky?
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Date	December 29, 2015 6:23 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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