It is happening a lot lately. Some girls I am in touch with disappear in mid conversation and reply to my whtsapp messages in hours while I can see them coming online several times before that.

There are two options:-

  1. Either I tell them that I have noticed they are ignoring my messages and tell them I do not like it in clear and unambiguous terms which would show I am assertive and care about it or

  2. I let it happen and act cool which would convey I did not notice and hence do not care but it also conveys that she might treat me as she likes and I would take it.

There is also a third option that I do the same to them. Which I tried with one girl last night. Yesterday she messaged me on whtsapp and I did not reply, I did not even see it, she messaged me again asking 'where are you so busy?' which means she must have checked our conversation and saw me online and my answer was 'what are you doing?'. After that her replies were quick but she is doing it again.

So which option should one opt for and why?