Here is my story.. advice would be greatly appreciated, my job requires very little interaction with women, therefore I rarely get the chance to get the opportunity to day game. My question is to you day gamers, when do you day game? majority of people tell me just spur of the moment on their way to work, or the gym, something to that effect.

I am wondering should I set a day in mind, roam around the mall, in hopes to practice my day game? Do any of you do this. I tried this one time and felt weird that I was wondering a mall for the soul purpose to approach women, needless to say I went home with 0 approaches. I am a newbie to day game so bear with me, I really want to make this a priority in my life, to get better at meeting women, more comfortable approaching strangers, I want to have a goal of having one new date every week. Do you think that's realistic?

I have been on such a slump lately, my girlfriend of 4 years left me for another man about 6 months ago.

I have been a debbie downer for a while after, not wanting to do much besides work, declining many invitations to go out, and basically just doing the bear minimum it takes to get by. I also feel like I lost self esteem and confidence after the break up, it is probably all in my head.Something really sad that I am willing to admit is I started making a step by step scheme on my approach i.e I approach with this line, I follow up with this line, so on and so forth, this obviously will not work and come off as incredibly unnatural, but yet there is this huge fear that I will start the approach, freeze up in the middle not knowing what to say.

I took a long look in the mirror and asked myself what do I want because right now I'm not the happy person I want to be. The answer was to get confident at approaching and meeting different women. I am 25 years old and I use to love gaming, watching movies, smoking weed, all of which have lost its fire for me. I have slept with 4 women which is obviously a loathful low number, my goal is not to get pussy per say but rather get many dates so I have the option to choose my women rather then me just accepting who will choose me. My first girlfriend was rather attractive but we didn't get along on a personal level, despite that I still stayed with her for 4 years and she was the one who broke it off with me. Had I had the confidence to meet other women I would have probably left her years ago. But I am getting really depressed now, so I have to get off my ass and do something about this, and I know failure is where it starts, and that's something that's made me hesitant, knowing my first x amount of approaches will most likely end in embarrassment, but it's something I need to do. I even am reluctant to go on vacation with friends due to fear of not being able to pull women while the rest of my friends get pussy, and looking like the sorry sap that got nothing. (sounds silly I know) My goal is to get a new date every week eventually, I am willing to spend 2-3 days a week going to mall and approaching women to get better, though every time I have went (3 times) I ended up approaching 0.

Questions for you guys, any advice for a newbie in my situation, how did you guys get better at day game? where are good locations to day game? have any of you made this a priority? I am willing to do anything to get this part of my life fixed. What good is money, if your not happy. I'm tired of living my routine lifestyle and being afraid to get out of my comfort zone and fail, it's winter here so it's really cold no women will be outside, therefore the best thought I have is to go to the nearest mall and spend about 2 hours cold approaching during the day, what are your thoughts?