I have rule 1 and 2 down...but I guess these messages really turn girls off. What am I doing wrong here?

lilycollinseyebrows · 2016-01-15T08:50:16+00:00

For me personally, the first one is too flirty haha. Assuming you haven't talked too much yet, I'd feel as if it was coming a little strong (unless the rest of your convo has been that way too then nvm).

I don't really see anything with the second one that I'd change. Everyone is different though and has their own personal life going on, so don't feel bad if conversations don't always continue Imo.

daddymonsterpoodle · 2016-01-15T15:11:05+00:00

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Redgiant54 · 2016-01-15T15:04:22+00:00

I'm experiencing the same problem. I get tons of matches on tinder but get stonewalled allot. I dont like tinder because I cant get my personality squeezed into a couple of sentences. I dont think its worth the hassle. Flirty messages and nice pics are nice and all but theyre still just messages and pics. There could be no chemistry at all when meeting. Try to meet girls in the real world, that's where the money is. Worked for me anyway.

7relos · 2016-01-16T03:37:03+00:00

You said thank you because she existed. Also, why would you make a sex pun WITH a winky face. That's nearing cardinal sin territory.

2016-01-17T22:35:05+00:00

shoulda just said "fuck disney" your shit comes off as scripted

Title	I have rule 1 and 2 down...but I guess these messages really turn girls off. What am I doing wrong here?
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Date	January 15, 2016 8:29 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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