Below is my complete guide for maximizing logistics and little life hacks to get you laid as much as possible. These two things are going to supplement your actual game greatly and is what will remove many of the barriers you face and make your girl(s) want to come back for more.

Some of this material I'm "stealing" from the sidebar in an effort to make a more comprehensive and helpful guide. I'm going to add in my own hacks and insights after having lived this lifestyle for a few years now.

Let's start with Life Hacks:

Bedroom

  • Let's start with cleanliness. First and foremost, you need to keep your bedroom clean. That means bed made, a spotless floor, clothes put away, dresser drawers closed, no food lying around. Clean. After that, if it's within your control, keep your entire place looking the same way, or at least to an acceptable level of tidiness. The more minimalist you can be, the better. The more clean and spacious your place is, the more comfortable she will feel as a guest.

  • Your bed is very important. Don't get me wrong, you can still get laid in a rock-hard twin-sized bed with scratchy sheets and a spiderman blanket (my third year in college), but a little effort in this area can go a long way. A full-size bed or larger is ideal, but I understand there are often space/financial limitations to this. Have a reasonably comfortable mattress or mattress pad. Have high thread count sheets (I personally prefer the softness and thickness of flannel sheets), a decent-looking frame, soft pillows (my last girlfriend was obsessed with my memory foam pillow), and a nice looking comforter set, such as this is a great way to make her feel exceedingly comfortable. Make sure your bed is warm enough (maybe layer up with 1-2 additional blankets under your comforter) so she can sleep naked without getting cold. Lastly, do what you can to make sure your sleeping rig doesn't squeak under stress ;)

  • Be sure to have an extra set of pajamas and offer them to your flavor of the evening if she opts to spend the night.

  • Make sure your place and especially your bedroom smells nice. Candles are great for this purpose. Burn one for a little bit before you go out so there is scent lingering when you return.

  • Since we're on the subject of candles, let's discuss lighting, an extremely important subject that doesn't get touched on very often. In fact, I could make lighting a standalone post. I've learned that a lot of the LMR I've experienced in my life came from the girl being uncomfortable showing her naked body to me for the first time. You probably want to leave the lights on so you can clearly catch all the action, but she probably wants to kill the lights to hide the flaws that make her human. You've got to compromise. Doesn't matter if she's chubby or a track star, almost all girls are a bit (or a lot) insecure to take their clothes off in front of you for the first time for any number of reasons. To quell this anxiety of hers, you need to have complete control of the level of light in your room. You have a few options as far as this goes. Option A, get a dimmer for your light switch. These are great but not my personal preference. Option B, get a small lamp and a candle. This gives you four different light settings:

  • Full light. Your default light fixture. Great for when you first show her your room.

  • Lamp. Optional. Ask her to turn this on when you settle in to do whatever you're doing then turn your main fixture off after. This dims the room a bit and helps to set the mood in a subtle way.

  • Candle. Light this panty-dropper the moment you enter your room with her. Have this thing ready to go. As soon as the mood has developed a bit and the kissing gets more vigorous and/or clothes start coming off, flick off the lamp and BOOM. Perfect mood lighting via flickering candle. Very intimate. So many guys are fucking up by not using one of these. Vanilla and apple pie are my favorites.

  • No light. I like to watch boobs bounce so I try avoiding this one when I can.

The Nightstand

If seducers had armories, nightstands would be it. Keep this handy little bastard stocked and right next to your bed. On top you should have the following:

  • Books. Have a few that show your interests or personality. These show you're a guy who invests in himself and are great for starting conversation.

  • Your lamp. See above.

  • Your candle and a lighter. This is critical. See above.

  • A box of facial tissue. Everyone knows how good it feels to have a tissue on hand when you need it.

  • Laptop/music player. Great to have on hand to start a movie, show travel pictures, or play music.

  • One or two tall glasses of water. Get these as soon as you get home. Offer your lady a glass shortly after getting through the door and bring them into the room with you. It's important to hydrate before, during, and after sexercise.

Top Drawer of the Nightstand

Keep the following in your nightstand for easy access. Highly recommended that you have all of these:

  • Condoms. No brainer. Protip: Keep non-latex condoms around as well. I've met girls with a latex allergy. Be prepared.

  • Lube. For when she's a little dry, you want to tittyfuck her, or she'll only give you a handjob. You need this. I prefer a water-based lube since it rinses off super easy. Sliquid Organics is how I roll. Just have a little water around that you can add to it when it starts to dry out.

  • Leather handcuffs (long socks work too). Kinky I know, but damn they are so useful. You'd be shocked by the percentage of girls that would love to be tied up or restrained but have never found a guy that would do it with them. Being the guy that gets her to try something new and exciting will make you stand out from the crowd. You don't have to go for it every time, but if you can find out she's into it and she's comfortable with you, use them. Incorporating a kink or fantasy of hers into sex is also a good way to avoid LMR (since she's more intrigued by the prospect of sex)

  • Misc sex toys. Can be anything from BDSM stuff if you're into it to silly things like sex dice (roll to try a new sexual position). This stuff is best to bust out for repeat partners.

  • More condoms. Never run out. Have dozens on hand, always.

The Bathroom

I know, I know. Cleaning the bathroom is never fun but having a clean space for her to handle her personal needs is actually just as critical as having a clean bedroom. Let's dive in:

  • Keep everything fucking CLEAN. Keep the toilet immaculate, the floor swept/mopped, the shower curtain and bathtub clean, the mirror wiped off, counters as clear and clean as possible. Girls absolutely LOVE a clean bathroom.

  • Have fresh hand towels hanging for her to use, keep extra fresh bath towels in the cabinet if she wants to shower in the morning.

  • Have a gentle soap/shampoo she can use that won't make her skin flake off. I like to use Dr Bronner's liquid soaps.

  • Have soft toilet paper. We all know how luxurious this feels. She'll appreciate it as well.

  • I keep a little box in my cupboard filled with grooming/hygiene products for her to use. These products include: Hair ties, bobby pins, toothbrushes, a large-tooth comb (remove hair and rinse after each use for obvious reasons), Tylenol (for hangovers), tweezers, cotton balls, vaseline, and rubbing alcohol (for piercing care). Having all this stuff on hand will make her feel so cared for if she needs to use any of them. It makes you look like the most thoughtful and benevolent little player out there. Girls are impressed and thank me when they need these things.

  • Other items listed on the sidebar include a hairdryer, saline solution, and wet-wipes.

General

  • Keep snacks and quick meals handy. Granola bars, yogurt, frozen pizza, frozen entrees, box-mix desserts can be a great way to build comfort and stop late-night hunger dead in it's tracks.

  • Keep a Brita filter or bottled water handy so your lady has instant access to clean, fresh water.

  • Having wine and various sorts of alcohol around can be massively advantageous. Even if it's just one bottle in case she absolutely needs something to relax a little. Know how to make drinks if possible. I practically never drink so I only keep a single bottle of wine in my fridge. For many guys, a stash of alcohol is a staple.

  • Art/posters/baby/family pictures on the wall in your home or bedroom is a great way to add some character to your living space and will create windows for conversation almost every time.

  • Board/card games can be handy to have around. I've gotten laid a couple times after a game of "strip Uno". You take an item of clothing off every time the other player says "Uno". Works beautifully.

The Field

  • If you aren't bringing condoms with you everywhere you go, you're already ill-prepared. Bring that shit everywhere. You never know when you'll need one.

  • YOU NEED TO BE USING A CONDOM CASE. DO NOT stuff them into your back pocket or your wallet, or leave them out in your freezing car. This compromises their integrity and they will wear out/fail you. Treat them like royalty. I personally use a Gamboy Color Game Case to carry my condoms. I can fit 3 condoms in a single case. They're the perfect size. They're cheap and have a slim, durable profile. Childhood be damned. Business card holders also work, from what I've heard.

  • Trial sized packets of lube are great to stash along.

  • Keep $20-40 in cash on you. You want to have a backup to lost/declined debit/credit cards.

  • Having a lighter in your pocket in case a cutie asks you for a light is very handy. Even if you don't smoke.

  • Stuff a cell-phone charger into your pocket if you'll think you'll need it. It could come in handy if you need to spend the night somewhere.

Logistics

I'll keep this section brief since it's pretty straightforward. When you go out, you need to have a plan. Below are things to consider:

  • Are you driving or taking the bus/metro? When do bus/metro services end? Know the schedule if you rely on public transit.

  • Keep your car clean and smelling nice. Keep her comfortable.

  • Where is the best place to park relative to the bars/clubs?

  • Have the Uber app downloaded on your phone and ready to go if you need it. If you don't have Uber in your area, have the number to a couple good cab companies. This is a must.

  • Which venues are best on which nights (ladies nights are great to know about)

  • Where are the 24-hour or late night diners that you can pull to from the bar/club that are also (ideally) on their way to your house?

  • What is the fastest route back to your place?

  • Find out who she's there with, if she's the DD, what her plans for the night are, where she lives, who she lives with, etc, etc. If she's the DD for a bachelorette party, you aren't going to pull her at the end of the night. If she's there alone, lives alone, and lives 3 minutes away from the club, you could even go back to her place if she's open to it. You've gotta adjust to her logistics as well.

  • Seed the pull early and have an excuse when it comes time to pull (Talk to her about certain movies, talk to her about your travels, talk to her about your hobbies or interesting (not necessarily expensive) objects of yours). When it comes time to pull, instead of saying, "Ready to go to my house to have sex?" Like a moron, you can say, "Hey, let's go to my house. I'll show you those pictures I told you about from when I went to Europe. They're really cool" or "Hey let's head out of here. I've got really good pizza at place. We can watch movie X as well."

Let me know if there's anything I missed or anything you'd like added on. Hope this helps a few of you :)