My LT GF has recently hit a rough spot in her life with a lot of shit going on at the same time. Her mother was just diagnosed with lymphatic and lung cancer, and at her age (72) it's a pretty life threatening deal. My GF also just started a Nursing Assistant fast track program to get her certification right after three-ish weeks so she's putting in a ton of hours of study time after class which is 600-1530 every day. These are the two main deals going on in her life right now among some small shit on the side.

My question is how do I keep my RP going while also being emotionally supportive. I want her to feel that I'm there for her emotionally, but I don't want to become some beta that waits on her hand and foot for everything and loses track of his life just because she's in a tough spot. How do I strike a balance?