Hi,

Recently I got closer to one of my girl « friend » (know her for more than 2 years). We started hanging out only the two of us (have a drink, dinner, danse, walk...) Since a week I have no news from her and I’m kinda scared to contact her again.

Before thinking of her as a potential girlfriend I was acting normally when I was with her (light, positive and humorous). Since I’m attracted emotionally to her I’m totally messed up. I’m getting obsessed about the fact she didn’t answer me. I check on facebook when she last loggin, since valentine day is getting closer I imagine her having a date and a future boyfriend. I lost all my natural and totally don’t know if I try to call her or not.

In fact I noticed that is a usual behaviour I have when I start to get attracted to a girl. I know I still have to improve my self-confidence but my brain doesn’t want to work fine and forget to keep things simple… Just to be clear, this is only when I’m alone. But when I’m with a girl I’m not being the kind of creepy obsessed guy.