Is it shallow for a girl to ask your job in her very first response on Tinder?

thehoundclegane · 2014-06-14T17:09:32+00:00

Dude, the first thing you did was talk about her profession. Is it really that shocking that she gave you a "haha" and stayed on topic to ask her question? Not shallow at all in my eyes.

And while we're on the subject, what is your job?

JDoorjam · 2014-06-14T21:03:20+00:00

You were evasive and way too sexual too soon.

And yes, it's Tinder. Of course it's shallow. Tinder is a shallow platform.

needathrowawayplease · 2014-06-14T15:16:29+00:00

You are reading way too much into this, it was just the first on-topic response she thought of since you mentioned her job.

binrobinro · 2014-06-14T23:21:08+00:00

She follows your lead, you get incredibly offensive, she blocks you.

God, I hope you're just trolling.

Panzer_Geist · 2014-06-14T23:54:26+00:00

Dude it's Tinder. If you're embarrassed about your job just lie. Hit it and never call back. I thought that was the unofficial motto of Tinder.

Edit: in general you should own whatever it is that you're doing. But lets face it. Sometimes we think with our dicks and say whatever needs to be said to get some pussy. So if that's all you're looking for make up a profession.

gabilromariz · 2014-06-14T14:35:49+00:00

It's tinder, I don't think it was offensive of her to ask (you already knew what she does). But she was a bit blunt, especcially in blocking you. Maybe she didn't like your tone or something. You dodged a bullet

panzergling · 2014-06-14T14:24:14+00:00

Yes, shallow and pedantic.

She's one of those idiots that uses online dating as a strict filter for actual ltr prospects, or to boost her self-esteem while cycling her usual fuck buddies.

raceAround126 · 2014-06-14T14:43:02+00:00

She could have been making conversation.

Either way, make it up!

Tell her you make the wings on airplanes!

Title	Is it shallow for a girl to ask your job in her very first response on Tinder?
Author	caxica
Upvotes	0
Comments	21
Date	June 14, 2014 2:15 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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