Hey guys,

I'm really, really struggling with club game. Like past weekend, me and two friends were standing near a group of girls. One kept eyeing me, I kept eyecontact too, there was a very obvious connection

Suddenly I spot her checking her looks with her girlfriends, she pulls out lipstick, puts it on, keeps eyeing me, and suddenly she's moving around, ending up next to me. By this point it's pretty obvious she was pushing her ass against me, I'm putting my hand on her hips occasionally (it was really crowded, people were moving behind us,...). One of my friends is next to me making out with his girl, the second one is talking to someone on the other side, so it's just me and her basically at this point.

So I pull myself together and ask her what she's drinking, as I've never seen that kind of glass before and I come here quite often. She responded jokingly that the glass was weird (it was a crooked glass ftr) and stood on the table weird. My entry was kinda horrible (I startled her) but still, she responded in a VERY open manner.

Convo ended, she went back to dancing and at one point I swear she was near grinding me, with me standing there like a fool. I didn't do anything, I was scared to, I think it's a combination of fear of rejection + the fact that my friends would've seen it...

Next thing you know, another girl (one I know, I do go there often and know a lot of people) comes by, asks me to go look for a friend of hers, grabs me by the hand, and drags me out. As I'm moving away I look back and I see the initial girl give an offended look, as she looks back at a girlfriend as if to ask "what the fuck just happened?", I notice the girlfriend shake her head as if to say "I have no idea..."

So now you're possibly thinking "well this girl who dragged you out clearly didn't like the competition", and so did I, but with her too I failed... We walked to some other place (her friend was, obviously, nowhere to be found, nor was she very interested in finding her anymore), I held her close, complimented her on her dress, called her sexy, at some points even came close enough to her mouth to kiss her, but I couldn't... And thus didn't.

About 30 minutes later I go back to the first place, first girl is still there, but by now I felt guilty for having "left" her hanging, and so I end the evening alone as usual...

What the f*** /seddit, I'm at a point where I know I'm attracting girls, my game is shitty but it's enough to get me to kissing, which is a much needed step, but I just can't...

I think I've been programmed to believe it's "wrong" to try and touch/kiss women, and on top of that I have serious "performance" anxiety in the sense that I can't do it when people I know are looking at me... Stage fright kinda?

How do I get over this? Anyone been through it? What a weird freaking stage of my life, I'm 28, very inexperienced, chances a plenty every damn weekend, and I just can't seem to do anything with it :/

This sucks...