OK, so I've done the whole marriage thing, 12 years, 2 kids. 46 yo.

My kids are awesome - I love them dearly and that aspect of my life feels complete. I'm not interested in more kids, nor am I looking to grow old with someone - fuck that, that feels like prison to me right now.

I've been divorced a couple of years and recently dating a woman aged 43 - she's great in many ways but the reality I can't avoid is that women around my age simply don't do it for me. Seriously, a woman on the downhill run to 50 just doesn't excite me at all. Call me shallow, I don't care, I know what I like and waking up next to an old woman isn't what I want.

I'm in great shape for my age, lifting the last 4 years.

Obviously my social circles are people roughly my age, but I'm looking to date women 10-15 years younger than me.

How the hell does someone in my position get in the position to be meeting younger women?