I have a female friend, can I use the friendship to improve certain aspects of my game?

IANAPUA_Yet · 2016-03-18T12:54:33+00:00

Sure, it'll be helpful in some ways, but completely useless in others. Spend time with your friend, but don't use that as an excuse to avoid meeting new women.

InFa-MoUs · 2016-03-18T13:16:48+00:00

Yes your friend can Def help, especially if she's pretty social and willing to go on the hunt with you. Then she can kind of give you a girl perspective on your approach and such. But this all depends on her personality. Either way tho being around more females is always a plus in getting conformable with the opposite sex.

2016-03-19T01:15:15+00:00

NO NO NOOOOOOOO, dont listen to these guys, they're all stuck in pickup lala land

DONT DO IT. You will fuck up because you're new. You dont learn anything by gaming your social circle. TRUST ME, I KNOW!!!

YOU WILL ALIENATE EVERYBODY! DONT DO IT PLEASE!

JewJutsu · 2016-03-18T12:45:11+00:00

I think you can. It can help you be more calm around women. You can also just flirt with her lightly and see what works/what doesn't. Practice getting comfortable with physical contact.

bautron · 2016-03-18T16:47:11+00:00

Take it all with a grain of salt. She can help a lot, but I recommend you start changing the way you are around her. Dont stop being cool with her, but work on things like your posture, your tone of voice, eye contact... all this with her.

Ive done this and ive met with different responses.

The "youve changed" negative response. Power through this one. You can probably have it both ways, keep your new attitude and be cool with her until she accepts this new you while you keep hanging with her for your improvement.

The "look at you" positive response. Use this encouragement. Eat it all up and keep it up. This is not the goal, just a good indicator. Keep working on your attitude abd being good to her.

Also, time is an investment and you must always prioritize seing other potential gfs over your friend.

DaygameCoach · 2016-03-18T23:00:01+00:00

Does she want to go with you to bars, events, etc and help you meet women? You still do the opening but having her with you...helps.

Title	I have a female friend, can I use the friendship to improve certain aspects of my game?
Author	mrazman
Upvotes	10
Comments	8
Date	March 18, 2016 12:21 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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