So I've been into pickup for about 3 years now. I first started day gaming, got my first kiss ever a few months later, then got laid for the first time a month after. Then I did again 2 months later. Then about half a year after, I got laid from cold approach (the other two were from Facebook).

Eventually I started to get really lazy and stopped trying. I'd get make outs here and there from night game, and fooled around with maybe like 2 girls, but that's about it. I've recently tried to get back into night game but I've noticed something... I'm too obsessed with getting laid.

I've enjoyed a lot the few times I've gotten laid, but it's getting obsessive now. I'll go out, come up with some lame excuses to not approach (I go out solo and get so damn anxious sometimes it's terrible), and if I see guys dancing/making out with girls, I get super jealous and start feeling like shit and it sucks.

I want to get laid because I'm always horny, but I don't want to be so obsessive about it. It's confusing because people say that girls can apparently sense it, so I'm always afraid to do anything unless it's EXTREMELY obvious the girl is into me.

If I go to the bar and bitch out and not kiss any girls or anything like that, I end up thinking about it all week, and just want the weekend to come around so I can go out again.

Who else went through this and how did you get out of it? I've just been in a complete funk lately. I look back at how I was when I first started 3 years ago and feel good because anything that happened, it happened because I tried. But at the same time, I don't want to be obsessively thinking all the time about getting laid.