I don't know how this title is suppose to be structured so I'll just illustrate my night and then ask questions in the end.

So tonight I went to a concert on campus because my drunk friend told me I could come if I wanted to, so I said fuck it even though there were only 30 ish minutes left. I coincidentally run into him walking around the venue and he tells me to come to the front mosh pit thing. I met two old friends who were drinking a mixed drink in a cup and I took a couple sips but didn't feel the effects. I ended up going to the front and just amping my state by joking with my friend and just telling him how boring everyone looked because they were just awkwardly standing around looking at the guys playing. When I was joking around with my friends I started basically just being social by talking loudly and saying how it's crazy how not fun everyone looked and I was just interacting with random people and honestly I don't fully remember everything I did, but I've heard from Julian that that's a good thing.

So I'm just looking around for people who looked like I could have some fun with and just fuck around and everything was actually going super well. Then I saw a group of 4ish hot girls and tonight "fuck it, let's open them". So started the conversation just being really extemporaneous and just being very energetic and basically just charismatic and bantering with the girls. I finally ended up focusing my attention more on of them and somehow we ended up having like our own 7 ish person huddle like a football team would have. Just having a good time.

So then I ask this girl if she wants to go on my shoulders and for some reason at first she didn't want to, but quickly changed her mind. So after like 5 minutes of not really talking to her (idk if it's even that possible) I put her back down and she ended up gravitating to her friends and paying attention to the concert and I knew that I should either just get her number and leave to another set or just leave. So she wasn't paying attention to me and I awkwardly looked around to see what my friends were doing and they were doing their own thing grinding with girls so I didn't feel like pursue the girl for her number.

For a couple minutes I did that awkward thing where you just look around and decide what you should do. I ended up seeing a mutual friend who was on a guys shoulders so I thought I'd start there and go just say hi. So I went over, got her attention said hi and was on my way.

Now I was walking around and saw two girls and as I walked by she did the whole "whip" thing so I opened up and told her does she always do that when she's drunk. They both had styrofoam cups so I asked them if the were really Sprite and they seemed to be telling the truth, but I drew it out. Then I ended up just saying my name was Casanova and was just naturally being funny making them laugh and everything was fun. I guess I did some kino by bring them both by my sides to do a hug type thing.

Then the concert ends and I get there Instagram's and told the I'd DM them and if they didn't rely I'd cry or some shit and the assured me they would. I know I should've asked for number but I made it clear I just wanted to be friends because they were fun to hang out with.

Then the girl that was on the guys shoulders walks by and I bring her to talk to the two girls and introduce them and do the collective hug thing and bla bla. The two girls left and I talked to my "mutual" friends for a few minutes and saw some of my friends and talked to them and ended up going to DQ with them and I invited my friend along and then everything was really light and super funny and I guess there was a lot of attention on me.

I focus on talking to her most of the time and we collectively complain about her friend that's really shitty and bond over that. Then I tell her I'll be her emotionally tampon and I talked to her about her bf for like 10 minutes when we were at DQ and then she leaves and shortly after I leave.

When I'm walking back to my dorm I see two people, girl and guy sitting on like an air vent thing that expels hot air. I think to myself they're comfortable sitting on an air vent in public at night, I'm sure they're open to interaction or they're drunk.

I open them and end up sitting down with them talking and it was an awesome fun conversation and I could tell they were a bit more than friends. I talked to the guy most of the time because I didn't want to seem like I was hitting on his girl and the girl was giving me super deep eye contact and Bambi eyes but I kept my attention on the guy and when I did look at her for a few seconds she looked away because I think she was embarrassed. Then I see a guy going down the street on a skateboard and I tell them I'm going to ask him if I can do a trick on his board because I've long boarded for 5 years and skateboard. I end up finding out I know the guy because when the weather is nice we go to the same local hill and occasionally see each other. I talk to him about his board because I knew it and just had a nice convo with him and after about 5 minutes he leaves because he was going somewhere.

Now I come back to sit and continue our conversation everything goes awesome long story short 2 people that I went to DQ with that I'm mainly friends with walk by and I talk with them and everything is going really well like usual. The two of them say they're going to walk somewhere and I swear they said they'd come back to sit on the vent with me but later my friends said they were trying o nicely say they wanted to be alone but once I got both of their numbers I alluded to it and he acted like he didn't know what I was talking about.

I go with my 2 friends from DQ and have deep talk with them for about 45 minutes and now I'm back in my room just thinking about how awesome my night was.

A couple questions I have 1) how am I suppose to not lose my voice at these these types of high energy places? 2) should I have asked the girl for my number? I could feel her attraction but I know she was there to have fun with her friends. 3) should I kino way more and try to close?

Basically I would love for your guys' opinion on what I should try to do and how I can improve or just really any input you have. Sorry if it's badly organized it's hard to cut something like this up. Thank you!