How bad of an idea is it to tell women that I'm a virgin?

almostbrandnew · 2016-04-17T08:26:10+00:00

Dude love yourself; your good and sucky characteristics. Own yourself no matter what and women will respect/respond. If you feel like you can't be straight up about something that is an important theme in your life then you have have a bigger problem than being a Virgin (which is only a problem if you feel it is).

Not saying too lead in with it or make being a Virgin your only dimension on a date. But if it gets brought up (hopefully sex does get brought up) you should be honest and vulnerable about it. You will be rewarded if you can accept, make peace, be open, and actively try to work on your flaws.

RobbyFeelsGood · 2016-04-17T08:49:10+00:00

I lost my V-card by telling her I was a virgin lol. I STILL tell girls I'm a virgin (jokingly of course).

One of my best buds always told girls he was a virgin, and they LOVED him. He always had girls around. His biggest problem was pulling the trigger. I helped him out and he lost his on a solid 9.5 at the age of 25. He's now engaged to her.

So YES. Chicks are surprisingly cool about it.

TheDarkKnight2001 · 2016-04-17T04:47:10+00:00

27 and still a virgin here, so let me speak from experience.

Friends - Go for it. Be honest. Dates - Probably not a good on the first couple. Bars - Nope! Don't even go there. You come off awkward.

Here's the catch - If I manage to sleep with a women, and they feel weird after the fact. You can't stop that. Don't sweat it. But if you are anything like me... this will drive you nuts until it happens. Relax, enjoy the company.

Gman54 · 2016-04-17T17:43:48+00:00

Trust me when I say that the fact that you are a virgin should be pretty low on your priorities when it comes to meeting girls, because if you have the right attitude, it doesn't really matter. Be honest about it when the time is right (like when things are escalating towards it). That's what I did when I lost my virginity at 25. I'm pretty sure that not only it didn't deter the lady that was with me, she was pretty enthusiastic to show me some cool stuff and teach me the things that she likes the best :-).

2016-04-17T22:22:19+00:00

My advice is be forward about if you're doing something - anything - for the first time, but at least have an idea of what to do. e.g. don't say "this is my first time going down on a woman" and not know where the clitoris is.

Shutout69 · 2016-04-18T01:46:24+00:00

I wouldn't tell them unless it comes up... and when it does you drop this line "Well, to be honest, I was waiting all these years to lose it to a girl like you." You will only have to say that line once in your life.

Title	How bad of an idea is it to tell women that I'm a virgin?
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Date	April 17, 2016 4:21 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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