Hi all,
Would be interested to hear some thoughts on this, I'll try to summarise as much as possible:
Girl met at party late last year early in my "transformation". She proved VERY useful along the way in confirming so much RP stuff (vain, self-absorbed, hamstering, hypgamous but in massive self-denial, quite a bitch although tolerable at times), and killing any compulsion I might otherwise have had to "care". It went from making out at party, to a few dates where she acted like a massive bitch to the first LJBF, to us ending up in bed together the first time (go figure... although only oral...). Shortly after that she started making herself quite convenient (coming over to watch movies, reasonably low maintenance, continued oral). By this point I was rather done with her and her crap, though, and she was about to spend some months out of the country anyway, and I was quite glad to have her out of my hair, frankly.
She returned about 3/4 weeks ago and I somewhat reluctantly met up with her just to catch up. Kinda viewed it as scoping her out again. Needless to say she hadn't gone through any kind of personality transformation. Didn't make any attempt to escalate to anything (would've been a pussy move, anyway, I think). She's been in continued contact about getting together again and properly LJBFing me again this time. We're supposed to be getting together next week. The thing is, I honestly don't give a damn about seeing her. I'm thoroughly bored of her by now. So I'm wondering what to do. I could:
- Go out as planned, and: a. Be cool as a cucumber b. Give her some shit (like I usually do) c. ?
- Dick her around somehow. Cancel on her on the day, experiment a bit, see what happens, etc.
Any thoughts? I think it's highly unlikely I can get anything more out of her sexually, don't desire her as a friend (she doesn't even have any cute girl friends, and is basically something of a cVnt). On the other hand, playing around with her and giving her shit has been quite helpful in the time I've known her for upping my game and increasing DGAF and I'm wondering if there's some extreme game I could play just to see what might happen.
Thoughts?
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