How many is too many?

robesta · 2014-07-04T14:51:25+00:00

Slut is a random label. If you're talking about LTR material, I'd be focused on whether she has been in relationships with guys she sleeps with vs one night stands.

To answer with a number, I definitely would not want her to be double digits before she left college.

MrEiffel · 2014-07-04T12:52:24+00:00

3.141592

Anything beyond that and she's lost for all time.

ConfidenceMatters · 2014-07-04T18:35:17+00:00

0 lifetime partners: Sweet virginal mama. A bit weird, but you’re confident you’ll break her in.

3 lifetime partners: Typical woman. Wife and mother of your children material.

10 lifetime partners: Above average. Proceed with caution.

15 lifetime partners: Well above average. Be dominant or she’ll cheat.

25 lifetime partners: A whole lot. USE HER AND LOSE HER.

100 lifetime partners: Stopwatch material. You wonder how fast you can get her from “Hi” to “Spread your ass cheeks, I’m going in.”

LukeMooney · 2014-07-04T09:17:41+00:00

I think at any point in time she should be single digits if you're considering a LTR. Once it goes past 10, only good for pump and dump, and plating.

[deleted] · 2014-07-04T16:46:56+00:00

Between 5-10 will raise an eyebrow. More than 10 and shes a slut. Especially if they are one night things.

caxica · 2014-07-05T16:58:30+00:00

If she admits to more than five, I would be very wary

wall-of-meth · 2014-07-05T20:39:24+00:00

You know, the sole number doesn't give a lot of information. For me, I say >5, but with a tolerance of a bit.

Take a look at the following:

How many LTRs did she have? Can those guys be considered dominant and not asshole-ish?
Have those LTRs been mutually beneficial? Did they last long enough to be considered a Long Term Relationship?

And after that consider:

How many ONS did she have?
Did she cheat? If so, more than once?

See, you need to observe her behaviour instead of a sole number. Of course, if the number is way outside of any reasonable range, you can instantly label a slut. But her behaviour tells so much more. Does she seek attention and vilidation from any male? Does she crave beeing the center of attention? Also the above listed questions give you a very good impression of how an LTR with this girl could go.

kami_kakushi · 2014-07-04T19:36:11+00:00

early twenties, 2/3 preferable. well actually 0 preferable but its rare these days (in the west, so go east)

Johnny10toes · 2014-07-04T16:31:47+00:00

2 is the number Webster gives. Now your number and my number is variable to what we consider.

Edit: And in terms of LTR or random hookup well that's a bigger and smaller number and you get to decide yourself.

asd1100 · 2014-07-04T11:22:17+00:00

more than 5/year of sexual activity but it depends on the culture a lot (this is a average between EE and central Europe, among americanised gen y women)

I consider the number of previous relationships a bigger red flag, if she had more than 5 "serious" boyfriends. Above 10 is a obligatory "do not fuck".

JaimeGoldenhand · 2014-07-04T17:35:17+00:00

I'll probably get flak for this, but for me it's one. I've had, and have, many girls who I've been the first for. Well, popped her cherry and she told me I was for all of them, but that's about as close to for sure as you can get. Is it fair? Of course not, but it's my personal preference, and so far it hasn't been difficult to find.

Title	How many is too many?
Author	30INCHBICEPS
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	July 4, 2014 7:56 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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