Basically, I've noticed around my birthdays I don't have many people to invite, let alone girls, and it gives me some weird form of anxiety because it makes me look like a loser to my friends. I go to a bunch of birthdays where my guy friends have some women and then I look at mine and well...there aren't much lol. This year in particular I made a few new female friends but the timing of my birthday means some won't be able to make it.

Instead of wallowing in it this year, I would love to hear how to use all this to my advantage. I'm not really sure what you guys can tell me that I don't already know though. I just don't want to look like a loser among my male friends for not inviting any girls and I want to try and have an epic night out.