I have no idea how to actually get laid. No where to start. Virgin at 20

ermhelpmeplz · 2016-05-06T01:43:17+00:00

The sidebar literally says "new here?" and then proceeds to point you in the direction of a wealth of information which answers all of your questions.

Quit making excuses and start making changes. 1) I am really unattractive physically - first of all looks are subjective. Second of all, you can do a lot to change your appearance for the better. Most people have the potential to be a 7 or 8/10, but that's irrelevant because A) you can be better looking than you are regardless of how much potential, so you should be striving for it regardless and B) looks don't matter even nearly as much as you think they do and its an excuse. If you read the sidebar material, you'd know this.

2) I think I am not really social. The fact that you haven't read any of the material is written all over it. 1) "I think" - stop thinking that. Fake it til you make it. What we think on the inside is what we project on the outside. Again, side bar --> all about inner game. 2) if you're an introvert, that's fine. A big part of inner game is about realising you shouldn't give a fuck what people think you should be. As long as your confident in who you are, it doesn't matter.

I could go on about your post and how your entire internal frame is letting you down but there's no point. Read the sidebar material religiously, implement it, try, fail, try again. Then when you have a specific question or are still struggling, come back and ask

SinSlayer · 2016-05-06T01:34:16+00:00

First, the moment you start to believe you are too u attractive to get laid is the moment the universe will agree with you. The opposite holds true as well. You have to change that defeatist mindset if anything positive is going to happen for you.

Next, you can change the way you look. PM me a pic and I'll offer some style and body tips that may help.

Third, if ALL you want is to get laid, sure, hire a prostitute. But if you want to learn how to approach a woman, engage her mentally and emotionally, and escalate physically, then read up on some of the material on this sub, or ask some specific questions.

Your sistuation is neither unique or helpless. You just need a bettet attitude about it.

Dankob · 2016-05-06T01:44:38+00:00

Where’s your male spirit at? I feel I’m the most handsome guy on earth even though I know its probably not true (like if every women took a vote on pics of different model guys I probably won’t come on top lol). Try to be comfortable with yourself. I can imagine how hard it is to try to be with a girl when you don’t like you look. At least be the best that you can be in terms of looks and then accept that. Then overcome your approach anxiety. There’s no other way. Be more social, talk to people not only girls.

puaCurveBall · 2016-05-06T05:25:48+00:00

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Title	I have no idea how to actually get laid. No where to start. Virgin at 20
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Date	May 6, 2016 1:04 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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