As I've used much of the shared knowledge on this sub I've really broken out if my she'll and become much more confident (bout darn time). It's really noticeable to the point that my colleagues and dates enjoy their time with me and I feel it.

A problem I'm noticing is closing. I have no problem getting the interaction going, however easing the move to the close is a weak area of mine.

I've been blunt with dates and just mention "Let's head back to my place for some more drinks" and it's been effective. In other cases I freeze and have no phrases that come to mind on escalating the close.

What are some phrases or scenarios you use?