So recently I was out with my boys and they wanted me to approach a girl. All the shit talk about having no balls got too me so I did it.

Despite my cocky "I can approach anyone attitude" I was pretty fucking nervous when it came down to it.

I went in.

"Hi I am (name) what is yours?" "Kennedy." (Put hand out) "Nice to meet you." "Oh, my hands all sugary." (Still stupidly shook my hand despite the bag of candy she was eating.) "Well, I just couldn't help noticing you and I think your beautiful and would love to get to know you more. Can I get your number?" "I have a boyfriend." "Oh, well it was nice meeting you." (Then did a hand slide fist bump when I left)

Now despite my decent intro and conversation, my lack of eye contact and sweatin my balls off killed me. My ego was pretty destroyed and my confidence needed work.

Advice For You and What I Learned

So after feeling like garbage turns out she didn't have a boyfriend and just turned me out.

At first I played Drake and Akon all night feelin like shit.

Then it hit me.

I learned a lot from this.

In order to improve you must keep approaching.

It. Is. The. Only. Way.

Trying the not giving a fuck technique was hard because of course you care. Getting rejected from an evolutionary, even a creationist standpoint, makes you feel like trash.

Happy hunting. Always practice.