Occasionally during the day when I see a cute girl I will flirt with her I get numbers but not dates.

ROCKSTARMANIC · 2016-05-31T17:00:54+00:00

You're what a I call a Number Harvester. Stop that. Remember quality over quantity. Find a girl that interests you, chat her up, tell her your interested and that it would be a true pleasure that you get her #s and that would like to talk to her again. Show your intention for a date. Intention is the major key here. SHOW IT.

katalis · 2016-05-30T11:57:19+00:00

Write down of your last interactions, as detailed as possible, here on seddit. Tag it as Field report ([FR]) and be open to critics and opinions.

We cannot know what your mistakes are if we don't know what you do.

don_juan29 · 2016-05-30T10:44:23+00:00

Same here. I feel the only girls I get are the ones who had a strong attraction. I haven't been able to "seduce" a girl.

Steve_Wiener · 2016-06-13T00:44:44+00:00

Focus on making a connection and creating attraction/sexual tension more. The number is just a tool, a means to an end, not the goal.

DaygameCoach · 2016-05-31T03:54:21+00:00

How many women have you approached in the last month? How many #s did you get from these approaches? How did you follow up with them get get dates?

Also, read Superflirt and Superdate to read their body language better to know how you are doing.

Try setting up the date on the original approach. Then you will get the # for logistics purpose. It's an anti-flake technique.

Title	Occasionally during the day when I see a cute girl I will flirt with her I get numbers but not dates.
Author	Footnob
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	May 30, 2016 6:57 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4lodfv/occasionally_during_the_day_when_i_see_a_cute/
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