If a girl is dtf but you're not attracted to her, is it common courtesy just to fuck or is it ok to have standards?

2016-06-01T20:52:06+00:00

Are you really asking this question? C'mon dude like wtf...

"Is it ok to have standards????"

The fuck outta here with that crap. Do it if you want practice.

calmroseviolentwind · 2016-06-01T21:08:48+00:00

I've made this mistake a lot. If you're like a regular horny guy you'll fuck anything that moves but if word gets around you fucked the fat chick... keep a good reputation. I've had moments where I tried to have sex with a girl I wasnt attracted to and I couldnt get a boner or get in the sexual mood at all. That can fuck with your head. Don't have sex for anyone but yourself.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-06-02T10:04:27+00:00

......but I really dont want to fuck her, should I just fuck her to make her feel good?

I want you to imagine this scenario with the genders reversed. What would we be telling a girl in your shoes? Do it for the practice? Just do it to make him happy even though you don't want to?

Can you imagine how fucked up that girl would become after choosing to think about their sexuality as something that doesn't belong to them?

Look, if you don't want to have sex with her, DON'T. Your sex life should not be a charity, unless you want to fuck yourself over by turning sex into a chore. That would be tragic.

Of course, take care of other people, but on something like sex, start choosing to date women you would want to sleep with.

I feel bad if I dont but I read a lot of other reddit threads saying to take every chance you get.

A lot of posts and replies are written by immature or desperate people.

I'm sure you can read all sorts of things on the Internet. Doesn't mean you have to follow every philosophy you read.

Theres a girl thats really not that attractive but she gives off dtf vibes and always flirts. She invited me to study at her house......

And lastly, in a situation like this, just suggest an alternative venue where sex won't be happening. Or invite another person to come with.

2016-06-01T20:51:38+00:00

No. No-no-no. No.

2016-06-01T22:41:01+00:00

I think you secretly want to do her and just want someone here to tell you it's fine. I've had sex with a woman that I wasn't particularly attracted to because my friends had left and she was still in my house and dtf. It was fun. Would do it again.

katalis · 2016-06-01T21:44:25+00:00

1) ALWAYS HAVE STANDARDS

2) Seriously, standards are important.

3) Don't fuck whoever you are not attracted to. If you are straight, would you fuck a dude just because he has a "hole"? No. You don't.

4) If she tries to make a move and you don't want to, please don't be afraid of telling her even if you think you will hurt her. People with low attractiveness usually throw themselves to whatever they may find due to low self steem. Don't be a jerk but tell her. You will do her a favour.

2016-06-02T02:19:18+00:00

Are you fucking retarded?

Turlast · 2016-06-01T23:53:37+00:00

Never feel obligated to fuck someone you're not into. That's actually worse than not doing it at all.

mmCHEESE111 · 2016-06-02T00:05:12+00:00

gotta start at the bottom my man. Youre future wife would appreciate it most! There is always a positive ;)

DaygameCoach · 2016-06-02T01:14:21+00:00

No. And, common courtesy means that you are polite in how you decline.

2016-06-02T01:56:40+00:00

Theresflirting for the sake of flirting and flirting for the sake of fucking. Pick one.

Partydollz · 2016-06-02T03:25:25+00:00

It depends...if you want to "feel good" than just do it....some men I notice do feel bad afterwards but most won't even care or remember her...just depends on your standards

2016-06-02T04:55:28+00:00

Just have her give you head or jerk you off then slap her in the face with your dick. That will put her in her place.

Title	If a girl is dtf but you're not attracted to her, is it common courtesy just to fuck or is it ok to have standards?
Author	Gaurav_Shinde
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	June 1, 2016 8:34 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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