About to go to Ibiza...on my own

TheGodfather_1992 · 2016-06-08T15:09:14+00:00

If you're really determined to go, you need to know that this will push you to your limits, since you're alone and in a place you don't know.

This could either end very badly for you, or really change you. If you're 100% sure, then make the best out of it. Go out, have fun, meet new people.

Above all, don't have an expectation for your journey. Don't pressure yourself that you have to get laid or something. When you go out, your only goal should be to have fun. Rejection only means more practice, thus bettering your skills.

When you approach, your goal shouldn't be to get a kiss or a number. It should be to have fun with the person you're conversing.

Before taking the plane, read some fashion guides and if possible get some new clothes, that will bolster your confidence. Meditation can also help, so give it a try.

Personally I would go with a friend, it's more fun imho. But if you really want to go, and no one else is available, then make this trip all about yourself. Get into situations that will make great stories when you come back, which can only be done by being bold and confident. GL HF!

traj21 · 2016-06-08T20:29:30+00:00

Do not take a pill there to show avicci you are cool

amckee539 · 2016-06-08T17:54:39+00:00

Try some vlogging. So if people ask say your making a vlog on what it's like and who you'll meet. This helps as people love to talk about themselves especially if there's a camera (including phone cameras). Just talk to everyone you can. Know the names of the bouncers/reps/ bartenders/ waiters. That way you can show value by knowing people. Also try merging sets and bonus points if you can bounce to one a bouncers/reps/ bartenders/ waiters. A group you meet one day can meet up with another. But if that fails fake it till you make it by saying you have met people to other people. No ever really asks "how long have you met them" or "where did you meet if you have a good rapor"

ROCKSTARMANIC · 2016-06-08T21:45:20+00:00

Dude HAVE THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE. Remember to always take care of your personal belongs wallet, passport etc. If you find a girl and attempt to hook up just try to find out who she is. You can't just trust anyone these days. Just have fun.

DeathRebirth · 2016-06-08T15:50:58+00:00

I don't know what you expect from Ibiza...

You will have fun though as long as you are chill and don't expect anything to happen. Gorgeous place and extreme party culture.

Valkuil · 2016-06-08T16:20:22+00:00

Dc10 mate

2016-06-08T18:30:07+00:00

Bro where in the UK are you from? I'd go with you next year if you're near London :)

PmNudes-orMotivation · 2016-06-08T21:29:32+00:00

Go there open minded, talk to random girls, but when you to to them, just enjoy the conversation and learn about them rather then just talking to them for the sake of hoping for sexual advances

Partydollz · 2016-06-09T00:24:52+00:00

I would definitely go...a new start is always fun and exciting...party it up like there's no tomorrow!!🎊🎉🎆

gustmes · 2016-06-09T01:16:55+00:00

I'm in a similar situation. Extremely introvert, doesn't like going alone to bars and pubs, and the first (and only) time I did, I stayed almost entire night without talking to any girl...

And now I'm gonna spend 3 weeks in Europe, mostly by myself.

I feel the same as you do. Good luck to both of us :)

mistercrumpet · 2016-06-09T14:09:35+00:00

If you're staying at a hostel that can be a good way to meet people, especially if it provides dinner or free drinks.

2016-06-08T18:22:12+00:00

that seems a bit drastic m8. if u cant pick up chicks at britain, y do u think u can pick up chicks at ibiza?

CorruptedFox · 2016-06-09T04:06:50+00:00

Don't forget to take a pill to show Avicci that you were cool :,D

InBaggingArea · 2016-06-08T14:50:31+00:00

Regarding the girls department, I'm still a virgin but I have managed to kiss 2 girls and get 1 number.

Return to your country of origin. Have a blast. You've no chance in Ibiza.

That was a compliment. You just won't know it for a long time.

Title	About to go to Ibiza...on my own
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Date	June 8, 2016 2:29 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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