Stories of Struggles You've Overcome With Women - Inspired by top page

TheXXL · 2016-06-13T11:21:53+00:00

There was this girl, 28 from the ukraine, working across my office. We met sometimes throughout the day, she was looking at me, smiling, so i though i'd try to get to know her.

One day i approached her, she was very happy about it, giving me IOI's we exchanged numbers, and i asked her what she was doing here, since from another country. She answered she was married. I thought, ok next.

The next day i didn't have to work, and she texted me. She asked me to accompany for cigarette break at work, so we did, and i thought to myself: She's attracted, so i'll give it a go.

After a few days we had lunch together, me doing heavy Kino, she hesitating but not giving me a decisive no. So i stated that i knew she was into me, to which she agreed but she didn't know what she wanted. Over the course of the next few weeks i tried to escalate more, she was opening up a little bit, but didn't let me kiss her. One last try to isolate her from work, so we met for drinks. She was flirty but still hesitant to take the next step. She was telling me she didn't love her husband at all, and she only married him because he was insiting. I told her i was fine with it, since i was only into sex, and he would never know. This is where i started to fuck up, i started being pushy, thinking that i had to just plow through her hesitance, she pulled back little by little, but still wanted to meet me now and then, and one day she began to get disrespectful towards me, at least this is what i felt. I nexted her, but still saw her at work. The last thing i heard from her was that she was pissed about that i just nexted her, and i could see in her eyes that she just didn't understand what went wrong.

In hindsight i get that she was just trying to get me to invest more, to fight more, being more dominant than i already was, and that i could have had her if i was patient enough, that her being disrespectful to me was just a power play on her part, her being from eastern europe, different culture, and being used to really aggressive and dominant men, also enjoying it to be a really hard to get type of woman.

By the way, i still don't care about if a girl is taken, it's still their decision, so this was not the fuck up, but my impatience.

Murfdigidy · 2016-06-13T16:41:23+00:00

one of the worst was before I really knew the game, I was talking to this really cute girl all night, we were chatting it up and I'd actually knew her since I'd worked with her in the past, but that night we happened to meet out at a bar years later. she was definitely interested and had just broken up with her boyfriend of 5 years, she was looking for a one night fling to let loose a little. me not knowing anything about the game at that point said to myself I better play hard to get after a good half hour of chatting and went to the bar to grab a drink, and then go dance with my friends, ya know play it 'cool'.

Well in that time, some guy who probably had more game in his pinky than I did in my entire body at the time swooped in and chatted her up. Again being a total puss bag I didn't go try to steal her I just said Oh when she's done she'll come back to me.

Long story short She passed me after we were outside of the bar with the guy, and said great to see you again "Joe"! She got in the car with the guy.

I practically cried I was such a loser, looking back on it now it's easy to see clearly where and why I fucked up, but back then I was a mess, so disappointed in myself and felt pathetic

DaygameCoach · 2016-06-13T15:18:12+00:00

I was too high energy with crazy body language...like Simeon form season two of The Pickup Artist. Ok, maybe he was slightly rose than me at first -- I'd have to ask his coach (we had one in common).

Title	Stories of Struggles You've Overcome With Women - Inspired by top page
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Date	June 13, 2016 5:52 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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