Do any of you go on dates just for practice, even if you're not interested in the girl?

DaygameCoach · 2016-06-25T02:01:46+00:00

No. I only go after women I'm actually attracted to. Even when I was a newbie. Experience with unattractive women won't help you much -- they may do a lot of the work...but since you don't want them, there is no point.

2016-06-25T04:18:48+00:00

I wouldn't do this, i only go after women that I'm attracted to. First commenter's comment makes sense though.

MrMasterPlanner · 2016-06-25T08:21:39+00:00

I think practice dates are amazing. They normally help me plan better dates.

BadHairDayToday · 2016-06-25T11:42:28+00:00

I've went on a date with a girl that I didn't really find attractive, not because I wanted the practice, but because I was too pantsy to reject her. It also didn't help that my friends thought she was pretty, and I couldn't figure out why I didn't like her. I guess it was because she was always smiling and jolly, but I could see that wasn't her at all. She wasn't happy, her life was empty.

It's like the girl in the bar that is visibly uncomfortable with being in a loud bar, clearly dragged along by her friends. That girl can be very attractive to me. But as soon as she starts fake laughing, and pretending to have fun she loses that attraction.

But I digress. I went on the date, got drunk, took her home, had sex with her and when she later asked me to go somewhere again I told her I didn't see any future between us. And I feel pretty damn bad about it. I wish I would've just let her down easy when she asked me the first time. So I say don't do it, it's a dick move.

Yegelle · 2016-06-25T11:54:34+00:00

I've did this for a period. Just to get out there and meeting people. I feel like I learned more about myself, for example that looks matter, and also more about what I want from a girl. In the end it got boring..

2016-06-25T14:41:37+00:00

the first time i got out of an LTR, i didn't know that she had destroyed any semblance of game that i had. so my first date after that was fucking terrible and i didn't even know it at the time.

built my game back up, got into an LTR again, and when i broke up with her, i took a little time to regain composure and got back out there. yes, i would go on dates with 7s just to get my game back up. nowadays it's almost all 9s with an occasional 8 or 10. you want to get back into the cycle of being able to tell your most interesting stores in the funniest way possible. it almost becomes like a standup comedy routine. use their reactions to gauge your success.

don't get me wrong though. never go on dates with anyone under a 7, and do not do this in close/small social circles though. dating people of lower SMV lowers your SMV to others. dating hot women makes you attractive to other hot women.

2016-06-25T20:47:03+00:00

Practice dates are a must. I have the same date for all girls, either a 6 or a 10. This also helps alleviate nervousness when you actually like the girl a lot.

ImDoneIn30Seconds · 2016-06-26T22:18:27+00:00

Yes. For me it builds an abundance mentality. Even if I end up not having sex with the girl, the simple fact that im on a date every day of the week puts me in the right head space. As an old saying goes în the pua community - if you want that one special girl go bang 10 others.

moosetin · 2016-06-24T23:28:28+00:00

That was one of my main goals in high school. Go on dates and learn how to have a conversation. I didn't get a whole lot of action but it really payed off in college

xmaine · 2016-06-25T02:30:42+00:00

Yeah. It could turn into a platonic friendship and she may end up being your wingman if you go out in the future.

2016-06-25T07:43:26+00:00

To practice what lol

Title	Do any of you go on dates just for practice, even if you're not interested in the girl?
Author	sedditzoolander
Upvotes	12
Comments	18
Date	June 24, 2016 11:09 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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