How can I bring myself to approach women if they don't respect me and seem to be turned off by me?

El72125 · 2016-06-28T11:47:21+00:00

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AndroWanda · 2016-06-28T11:04:15+00:00

They probably dont respect you because you seem to have no respect for yourself. People treat you the way you tell them to. Tired of fucking "low hanging fruit"? Then stop. Youre the only person standing in your way. Maybe hit the gym and read some self improvement material. Also youre only 21. I didnt come into my own until I was 22-23. I dont have an astronomical body count but as I turn 27 this year Ive had more healthy sexual encounters with women than unhealthy.

DaygameCoach · 2016-06-28T17:00:06+00:00

You have never started a conversation with a woman because you have approach anxiety. Read all the sidebar help.
As long as you think you are too anything (tall, short, back, shinny, fat), you ARE. It's a self-limiting belief. Work on confidence. 3.You don't know how to read they are physically attracted to you (read superflirt and superdate) but attraction is more than physical.
Approach 10 women a day for a year and let us know how it goes.
Stop sleeping with women you aren't attracted to. It's a crutch and a time/energy waster. People here will disagree with me.
I've been approaching over 10 years and have not been accused of sexual harassment. These horror stories are probably of people who went over the line somehow....or didn't know how to exit gracefully (It was a pleasure meeting you).

What can you do differently:

Again, read all the sidebar help. Several times if needed. Work on your inner game including confidence and self limiting beliefs. Cold approach a lot. Atop making excuses and please don't respond to this with excuses of self-limiting beliefs. Get of seduction boards until you've approached 100 women.

questionthis · 2016-06-28T17:19:06+00:00

Oh man, sounds like you need to work on your approaches. Luckily that just comes with practice.

You should invest more time in hobbies, though, and try to meet girls through doing your hobby.

Rafael_prz · 2016-06-28T11:52:52+00:00

First of like AndroWanda says build respect for yourself. Set standards. Go for the women you consider 10. Fuck settling for what you can get and go for what you want. Success with women is part of your reality. Work towards it, accept and learn from failure. A quote by Wayne Gretzky that change my life and that you got realize is "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take". Try new things, approach attractive women, you will surprise yourself and you will build of from that. Keep growing and good luck!

Title	How can I bring myself to approach women if they don't respect me and seem to be turned off by me?
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Date	June 28, 2016 10:43 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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