Mixed signals, not sure if I'm too deep in the friend zone

iammrwill · 2016-06-30T17:47:52+00:00

If you have to make this post, she probably only sees you as a friend. There was another post on here recently that said something to the effect of, "If someone tells you who they are, believe them."

In this case, she says you're friends so there you go. Can't get much more direct than that.

gutenworgen · 2016-06-30T21:32:17+00:00

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Don_Keydick · 2016-06-30T20:35:20+00:00

Maybe she's seeing other guys and she wants to see which one of you impresses her more. If I were you I would try to be straight out with her and ask if she wants to be a little more serious.

2016-06-30T22:42:00+00:00

Buddy you need the nuclear option.

At this point you guys are comfortable enough with each other so that you can invite her over for no good reason. As soon as she walks in slam her against the wall and finger her.

If at any point she says "No", then stop. Ask her to leave(the nicest, but firmest way you can imagine. No hesitation!), then go out and find a new girl (even if she begs to stay).

Ask her to come over the next day if she begged to stay. Then rinse and repeat. She wont ask you to stop the second time.

There is also the chance that she will straight up mad and leave; or not beg at all. If any of those happen then that's your answer!

Waste no more time with this girl if she didn't fight to stay.

Psychocist · 2016-06-30T23:00:38+00:00

Ya know, something similar happened to me.. except I slept with her (twice) first. Now she just wants to be friends because I told her I'm not looking for anything serious. Forget her, move on.

There are women out there who will be attracted to you who will NOT play games with you or show any kind of resistance and will forgive blunder after blunder. They will practically give themselves to you because they want you so bad. Go find those women! Leave the rest of these clowns in the dust.

Title	Mixed signals, not sure if I'm too deep in the friend zone
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Date	June 30, 2016 5:44 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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