Got over (some of) my approach anxiety and talked to three pretty girls. Are there any improvements I could make?

CaliBboy · 2016-07-12T21:35:18+00:00

The first girl I talked to was reallyyyyy cute and she was also hot. Had a convo about how terrible our school is, our majors and classes, etc. I asked for her number but she said no (I ain't even mad tho)

Why are you taking about non-sense? You should more upfront and direct.

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Second girl was also cute and hot. She was helping me in the administrative building since I didn't know how to file one of the financial aid forms. I forgot to ask for her number

It happens. You can not have them all.

There was also another girl I spoke to on Thursday and I tried using a pickup line I got from a friend. Never again. She dropped the, "my boyfriend...." line 2 minutes into the conversation so I said nice to meet her and left.

Never use lines unless you made them up yourself and are based upon what you what. You can develop your own lines by knowing what you what then using presuppositions (you seem like the kind of woman who...) to learn information about woman you're dealing with.

IWriteForGroupies · 2016-07-12T21:49:35+00:00

I like to analyze things. I believe that things should be done reasonable. I could tell you to memorize a bunch of openers but that would be pointless. I believe you should work on two things and that is your goals and yourself.

When you approach a woman, what is your purpose? Is it to get her phone number? Why not her facebook or some other form of social media? Why should a girl give you her number? Especially if you are a stranger, what makes you safe enough to actually know? If the girl is hot, how many times do you think guys approach her for her number. You have to think when you have a goal. If you can't think on your feet, you have to learn to plan ahead.

Time moves forward, not backwards. You don't want to waste anything without good reason. When you talk to a girl, you have to learn to make judgements quickly or figure out how to get to the point. If you approach a girl, you want to have some thoughts in your head. This normally requires you to actually look at her beyond her looks. What color is her hair? Is she wearing a necklace? What can you learn from looking at her? Then take this information and use it. It is okay to be wrong. Sometime the best way to get a girls number is not to ask for it. Remember always to move forward.

If you have problems with thinking on your feet planning is something you can do before you even leave the house. I like to trust numbers because they rarely ever lie. If you go to a college, you have a good chance of seeing 70 percent one type of girl (could be white and blond), 10 percent another (could be Asian) and 20 percent another type. Most people know what they are attracted to. Research the kind of girl you are attracted to and then think. What is it like to be them? What is the best way to approach? Learn about your target. Then role play scenarios of how things would go. Make sure to include negative scenarios. The imagination is a powerful thing Don't plan too much. Make sure you get out and apply.

Don't forget to work on yourself. There will always be how you see yourself and how others see you. You want to avoid as much negativity as possible. Maintain hygiene. Besides genetics everything about your appearance can be adapted to help you accomplish anything. I think I have written enough for now. I hope this helps.

2016-07-13T02:17:39+00:00

step 1 never use the word's "flowing and juicy" again...

Title	Got over (some of) my approach anxiety and talked to three pretty girls. Are there any improvements I could make?
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Date	July 12, 2016 9:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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