Disappointing 'date'

TheXXL · 2016-08-01T05:41:15+00:00

Don't worry, you might have had a not so good date, but at least you had a date. This is a step forward. You also know what you did wrong, and if you manage to avoid those mistakes in the future there's no problem. The whole seduction thing is about learning, so you need practice, and you did practice.

Long story short, you should be proud of yourself since you did something! I remember when I started out. I was so nervous, met a woman that was a year older than me, and thought to myself that I will fuck her... The problem was she felt my nervosity and she took the lead. Needless to say that nothing happened and even though we met a few times after that, at about the 4th "date", where I didn't have the balls to escalate, she told me she now had a boyfriend... Haha now that I think about it, I have to laugh at myself for being such a scared nice guy.

So, keep practicing and learn from your mistakes, you will get better at it.

King_Pyrrhus · 2016-07-31T22:40:54+00:00

Blackjack and hookers my boy, blackjack n hookers.

Seriously though.

Met this girl at the club 3 weeks back, been on holiday since a few days ago, texted for a while, asked her out sat, she declined, suggested sunday instead. We met today, 14:30, started kino* straight away- why go back a step when she's already had her hands down your pants? Had a coffee, then heavy make out sesh, then convo about casual sex, said she'd let me know tonight.

I got the option to fuck her once or she introduces me to some of her friends(stunners).

Thats my short field report. Hope it helps.

Be witty, fit, feel good, listen to music, wear good clothes, know you look good, and the gamba confidence shall come.

Peachesandteacup · 2016-07-31T23:18:26+00:00

competence creates confidence. Try to find the mistakes from this date and improve upon them. Also try to learn what the girl might like to do or what you have in common with her and make a friendly and fun environment. Dont forget to smile and show interest in what the girl says instead of just trying to touch her... IDK just my thoughts from what i've read. Good luck

bour-bon-fire · 2016-07-31T21:53:14+00:00

Yeah, you don't come off as a desperate virgin so much as a total creep.

Title	Disappointing 'date'
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	July 31, 2016 9:40 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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