how do you deal with women in your family when they are acting like plates??

[deleted] · 2014-07-31T03:56:20+00:00

I'd just refuse to talk about it. If she wants to discuss her antics, she can do it with someone else.

g4rb4g3account · 2014-07-31T16:08:56+00:00

compartmentalize. accept that she is being a whore but that doesn't change the fact that you will have to deal with her in the future. unless you plan on not going to a family dinner/holiday again and you generally want to break your parents heart (because YOU will look like the bad guy who is being a dick to your sister), you need to move on from this and accept that she will live her shitty life however she wants. by fuming over this you are allowing her to have control because this will only end up hurting your relationship with the rest of your family. live and let live.

trpthrowquestion · 2014-07-31T13:57:39+00:00

Why do you even care? It's her problem, not yours.

kick6 · 2014-07-31T16:25:49+00:00

define "acting like plates."

cray-cray-cray · 2014-07-31T20:24:38+00:00

Usually, I keep fucking them. They might find a boyfriend or something, but they shoot me a random text 3-4 months later.

ubiety · 2014-07-31T03:43:13+00:00

Cut contact.

You're not obliged to be 'friends' with any member of your family, especially if they choose to make poor life decisions.

If you still live with your sister at home, limit your interactions and let her live her own life.

If she comes crying to you for help, remember that she is the cause of her problems. If she cheats on her boyfriend, that's on her and she needs to face the consequences of her actions, not you.

Family is not a reason to sacrifice your sanity, especially when money gets involved. No need to scold her or 'set her right', just move on and focus on your own life.

trpthrowquestion · 2014-07-31T11:18:57+00:00

She's your sister. I promote my cousin to be as hypergamous as she can before she hits the wall.

Title	how do you deal with women in your family when they are acting like plates??
Author	trpthrowquestion
Upvotes	7
Comments	17
Date	July 31, 2014 3:25 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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