The best way to open a girl is to have it be situational- that is to say, spur of the moment, related to what the environment dictates, natural and easy.

BUT, I know people love canned openers so here are a few of my favorites...

1) Read Each Other's Faces

Walk up to two friends who seem to know each other well and say:

"Hey, let me ask you a question. How long have you two known each other?"

They'll answer.

Then say: "So it's safe to assume that you're pretty good friends?"

They'll say: "yes."

Then say: "Well, I have my best friend with me tonight, and we were just over there laughing about the fact that we can read each others' faces without actually saying anything. Do you guys ever have that?"

They'll get really excited at this point and say: "YES!!!"

Then you can say: "You know what; I thought that about you because you two seem really close. And it's funny; cuz you two actually have some of the same mannerisms..."

Watch what happens when you tell girls this, it's hilarious...

You can then follow up with:

"Do you guys want to take the best friends test?"

They'll say: "Of course!"

Then say: "Ok, what shampoo does she use?"

-OR-

"What's her all time favorite movie?"

-OR-

"What would she do with her life if she had absolutely no chance or failure?"

(or any number of best friend type questions)

That will put your foot firmly in the door, and then it's up to you to carry the conversation from there.

2) The Coffee Shop

While at a coffee shop pay careful attention to the names being called out when a customer's drink is ready.

When you see a cute girl, listen for her name.

Once you hear it, grab a seat next to where she's sitting, or outside by the entrance so you can catch her on her way out.

When she walks by say: "Jessica?" (like you've known her your whole life).

"How have you been?"

She'll stand there talking to you (you can also ask her to sit down), looking at you with a sideways glance as she tries to figure out who you are.

When she can't stand it any longer she'll finally ask how you two know each other, to which you can say:

"How could you not remember me, Jessica? I'm honestly a little hurt right now."

Smile as you say this, then say: "You know what, I'm just messing with you; we've actually never met. What's up, I'm Mark."

This works because you'll usually have enough time to show her your charisma and sleek wit before she works up the courage to ask.

By that time, she'll see your small deceit as funny and charming, and you'll almost always be able to get her phone number.

3) The Way My Phone Rings

Walk up to a girl and say: "Hey, let me ask you a question. My girl-friend and I were having a bit of a disagreement over there, and we need an outside opinion. I told her that sometimes I can tell who's calling me by the way my cell phone rings, but she says it's all in my imagination. You're intuitive right?"

She'll say: "Yes."

Then say: "So you can sometimes tell who it is when your cell phone rings, right?"

At this point you've set it up so that she'll be motivated to side with you and form what we call an "Alliance."

Also, she won't be sure whether your "girl-friend" is actually your girlfriend, or just a girl who's a friend, which will disarm her considerably during your opening.

4) Not So Pretty Eyes

This is best used on a girl who DOESN'T have beautiful eyes, because we don't want to give women compliments that they hear all the time.

Walk up to a cute girl and say: "Hey, you have really pretty eyes."

Then look at her closely, and say: "No, wait, the right one is way cuter than the left one. So let me rephrase my compliment- You have a cute eye."

5) Come in Your Hair

When you see a hot woman, walk up to her and say: "Hey, I think you have something in your hair."

When she tries to pick it out, say: "No no, not there. Here let me get it for you."

When you pretend to get it out, turn to her with a smile and say: "That will be 20 dollars please."

When she says: "Whaaat?"

Smile at her and say: "What, my services aren't free you know. I guess I could charge you a 15% restocking fee and put it back in there if you want."

She'll usually laugh pretty hard when you say this, and then say: "You know what, you seem fun. Instead of the 20 dollars I'll let you buy me coffee sometime. How does that sound?"

One variation on this is to have a massive wad of link in your pocket, and pretend to pull that out of here hair. I've done it once with a handful of leaves and that got a good laugh as well.

The most important thing to remember is to be laid back and have a smile on your face while saying these lines.

The vibe you want is PLAYFUL. You're just there entertaining yourself, and you don't care what happens.

I just published a videos page on my website that I'm pretty stoked about. I pulled some videos from my course, and there on this page here: http://www.alphasymposium.com/excerpts-instant-attraction-video-mastery-course/

Some chapters include:

-25 Traits that Disgust Women

-Female Psychology: How to Flip Her Attraction Hot Switches

-How to Tell if a Girl Likes You

-What to Talk About With a Girl

  • How to Attract Women With the Tone of Your Voice