Honesty vs. Neediness

Bulk_king11 · 2016-08-24T06:59:25+00:00

Max from RSD said it best, neediness is not something you are, its something you feel if you feel needy youre being needy, if youre doing what you want and dont FEEL needy youre not being needy. try come from a place of fun. Practice being carefree, and self amusing.

I know these seem like vague terms but there's great rsd videos that will help you achieve all 3 of these better than I can in a post

spocchio · 2016-08-24T11:05:34+00:00

Telling her that you want to get laid with her again is actually being honest.

Texting her all the time is annoying and has nothing to do with honesty.

In my personal understanding of the book philosophy, one should: 1) tell her that you'd like to have sex again 2) and if she says no, then move on.

eviiil · 2016-08-24T14:01:33+00:00

Wanting to have sex isn't by default neediness, it's basic instinct.

If you tie it tight to your self esteem, if you have nothing else at the current time that will make you happy, if you think rejection would ruin you.... then yeah it translates to neediness.

Find more things to fill your time and focus on them, text her what's on your mind when you get some free moments.

rmbarnes · 2016-08-24T08:20:57+00:00

Honesty is not lying. Not texting her all the time even though you want to isn't lying.

rvhack · 2016-08-24T06:16:56+00:00

For me it's that I want more than for her to like me. I want to like me whether she does or not.

RandomGoodMan · 2016-08-24T07:06:17+00:00

Manson is right in that you should be honest about your desires. That doesn't mean that honesty is attractive if you're honestly needy. The part about being honest is to get people over using canned lines, ruses, and other manipulative crap. You need to have some self-worth and boundaries to get rid of the neediness. For example, text her once & set the boundary there. You express your desire, but you stop her reciprocity from defining you. Women want to be desired by grounded men. Grounded men are honest, but it's not the honesty that makes them grounded.

Title	Honesty vs. Neediness
Author	shifu_shifu
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	August 24, 2016 6:11 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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