GF of 1 year and I have yet to say 'I love you'

lonGterMgoalS · 2014-08-14T20:02:36+00:00

All her actions point to her being in love with me

I gotta ask man, what does this mean?

skoobled · 2014-08-14T20:36:06+00:00

Probably one of my best Ltrs back when I was pretty BP told me she loved me quite early on. We were together about a year and I never said it... In fact, that relationship was really quite RP for circumstantial reasons

AlphaAsFAQ · 2014-08-15T00:25:44+00:00

I am at 1.5 years and we still have not said it to each other. We have even talked about saying it, I told her I have no plans on saying it until she does and she said the same. She went on about how I don't show emotion or tell her how I feel about her and I called her a hypocrite, end of conversation.

We have a great relationship dynamic and work well as a couple.

She had a couple of bad bfs in the past who cheated on her so I assume she is protecting herself. She has likely opened up to and trusted those boys in the past and been hurt so wants to make sure I actually feel that way first before she lets me know that she feels that way too.

Don't worry about it. If the relationship is working well then keep on doing what you are doing. She just needs more time to trust you because of her past.

throwawayrp12 · 2014-08-14T19:20:59+00:00

Don't do shit. You're lucky she hasn't said it yet, because it would mean she's most likely lying.

Love for men and women is a lot different. Do you love her? And by that, I mean unconditionally?

Even if you do, don't say it to her. If she says it to you, don't say anything back or something.

TheMightyAnusFlap · 2014-08-15T17:14:03+00:00

Do not tell a woman you love her. Women are pretty much there for entertainment or at least that's how you have to look at it to avoid beta-izing yourself. If a woman tells you she loves you, just say "I know, I love me too." Women do not want love. They want assholes.

Also why are you being exclusive like a fucking beta? Go spin some plates.

Title	GF of 1 year and I have yet to say 'I love you'
Author	throwawayrp12
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	August 14, 2014 7:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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