Don't know if this is the right sub or not, but I'm here because I need advice.
My only relationship so far has been with a girl I met on a game, we talked few months and eventually began dating, so the "first move" kinda thing didn't really apply there, although I did make a "move" after like a month of casual talking. Anyways, eventually we got together, but after like a month + I realised that I don't have enough time to do the thinfs I want to do and I didn't have "the feel" with her, you know? And she lied about her age...
She said that I looked like an 8/10, but at the time I didn't have much fashion sense (I still kinda don't, but my friends and brother do), and now people even have said I look like a 9/10 or I look good/hot ( not just friends, but also some girls too).
Now, the problem is I have MAJOR confidence issues about making the first move. I think of myself as a 6-7 at best, and I dont want to be rejected, and while yes, I dont gain anything by being scared, I still am scared. I think I don't stress at all if I know the person likes me back, but that would mean I'd have to get a positive answer first, which I'm too afraid of asking...
Tommorow I think of asking out a girl from school 1 class lower, more like, my friend will push me to do it and I feel like I will back out cause I'm a pussy... I feel like she likes me, I kinda see her looking in my eyes when I pass her etc, but It could just be a coincidence (see im trying to find an excuse, somehow always negatively thinking that nothing is going out and who would like someone like me etc...)
So yeah...any advice until I wake up? (Saying things like In the long run it doesnt matter will probably not change anything, just saying, im still scared :/ )
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