You probably heard all the tips and tricks about being confident being yourself, not trying to please a girl, guys are getting better at game overall and are adapting but women are also adapting and I see a lot of guys get manipulated into friend zone with good intentions

1. It's all about you

You are the reason you succeed and you are the reason you fail, good relationships are built upon synergy not compromised. Your only goal is to get what you want, not to give her what she wants, you ask her what she looks for in a man to determine if you are what she is looking for.

Now women would love us to believe nice guys don't get laid because they are dishonest and manipulative, this is just not always true, its because they don't put themselves first.

I had a girl shit test me that she has been raped and wants to take it slow because she is scared, a nice guy will agree to this, because he cares about her, I simply said, "Take all the time you need, I'm going to have sex with other girls" ,15 minutes later we are having sex.

Notice how I didn't try to game her or convince her, she can do as she pleases she has to get hers, and I have to get mine, 99% of my game is simply walking away

This is a advance shit test but easily passed if you are only in it for you

2. Women don't use their children as a excuse for men they like

This one is controversial, I say this with a lot of experience, women will use their children to cock block you. I several women tell me that they didn't want me around their kids, because they didn't know me. This is logical and rational so I agreed to this. 2 weeks later she is fucking a dude she just met while her kids are in the bed sleep.

I reverted back to nice guy, nice guy is rational, to act as if nice guys are just insecure , needy man is simply untrue.

As time went on I learn how to pass this shit test, here is the conversation

Me: "When are you free"

Her: "Today around 5"

Me: "Cool, we can chill a bit and if we click we can head back to my place to get to know each other better"

Her: "I can't I have to pick up my kids around 6"

Me: "Well sweetie, what if we really like each other, I think we should reschedule"

Her: "Wait, I can see if I can get someone to pick them up"

Long story short I went over her house, saw her kids, they saw me, I ended up taking her to a hotel. Notice how I didn't demand or try to game my way in, I simply said reschedule, no gimmicks, no jokes.

I met several women and fucked them with their kids 10 feet away in another room sleep. Note these are high quality women, they work, have jobs, I think we as a society tend to attack women so much that they must put on this face. NEVER JUDGE, you aren't god, this is why women lie and have LMR, because they don't want to seem like a slut or did something wrong.

I had a few "Nice guys" tell me those are low quality women, and than they get played by women(Their own fault) because they believe in these invisible rules.

I'm not putting myself ahead of the kids, I always say family comes first, but I'm not going to tolerate a lack of attention and affection if she likes you she will find a way.

Which brings me to my next point.

3. She forgot her wallet

Now, this one was tricky,I don't mind paying for dinner, and I don't expect her to sleep with me just because I pay. Now the date was going well but I hadn't escalated and I wasn't really being shit tested(Shit test are a good thing), the check came, this is the first time I get to show her I'm not a AFC, I told the waiter split the check, she said she forget her wallet, I told her that isn't my problem. She flips out, starts crying, I remain calm and tell her she needs to be more adult about these things.

Now the back story is important, I wanted a cup of coffee ,she suggested dinner, I would of paid for a cup of coffee, I always do, its cheap, a few bucks and you really aren't doing much of anything really. But she suggested dinner because she was hungry, this is what pissed me off, She was the one who wanted dinner and than "Forgets" her wallet.

1 month later she calls me up telling me this is the worst date ever , this is when I knew i had her, I told her, "Go date a nice guy", she says most guys pay, I told her,"You like guys who will pay your way and do whatever you say, go date them" She complain that she didn't and that I should give her a chance, long story short, she turned out to be a freak who let me hit it anal raw.

My point is, she was good looking, guys always paid her way, do not believe for one second I was her only date for that month, she couldn't get me out of her head, she thought about me constantly and had to talk to me.

I stuck to my rule, "never pay for dinner", and got anal sex as a reward, meanwhile a nice guy who paid for her dinner most likely got nothing but a thank you and a :)

tl;dr My game isn't that strong, my looks aren't that great, In fact I still consider myself a nice guy, I don't push, I don't argue, I simply state what I want and walk away if I don't get it.I'm very playful and cheerful and just looking for a good time with that special someone.