So I have quite a few female friends and some of them are good enough friends that I have felt comfortable talking to them about my dating insecurities. They all tell me that I shouldn't be worried about girls because I'm charismatic, and interesting or other nice things. The thing is I don't feel like it's true. I fee like they are just trying to be nice.

I am trying to work on my self esteem issues but I also want to be realistic woth what I need to work on.