Two weeks ago I met a women through online dating. She had a profile that actually gave away enough to start a conversation AND she seemed interested in me, sonshe was probably one in a million. I wanted to take that chance, since, to be honest, it is probably one of the very few I will get and asked her out. We scheduled a date for the next weekend and continued to have some small conversations every other day.

I was really looking forward to the date and the possible chance to actually find a girlfriend. For the date we met at the trainstation, went for a walk and then to a small cafe that I wanted to show her. I actually hat a lot of fun, we talked and laughed a lot, she seemed interested in me and I showed interest in her. If you asked me the same day, I would have said that it went good and that I have a chance with her.

A day later she shut me down and said she wasn't interested in me and didn't want to see me again. That just made me look at my actual chances again. Out if all those women, only a few have a profile that gives anything to talk about, most of them still don't even answer when I message them and the one that did and went on a date with me still isn't interested. Needless to say it is disappointing and depressing. After that I am just discouraged to message anyone again since the chance that she would actually end up liking me is practically zero. I think I should just stop bothering with it. How do you put up with all that bullshit and still continue with it?