Background: Been a lurker on Seddit ever since my 4 year relationship ended in the beginning of summer. i gained 40 pounds in those 4 years and completely lost my sense of swagger I had before the relationship. Lost the weight been building my gameplan with the use of Seddit.

I did post here before after my trip to Vegas, again would appreciate any feedback

Went out with some friends to a major club/bar neighborhood in my hometown. Night started out very slow, went to a bar that was packed and saw a few girls dancing with each other. Tried to make eye contact but didnt happen. Thought I give it a shot anyways, girl starts griding with some other guy. Talked to the guy after they where done dancing seeing how she knew the girl, super nice dude, said he has no idea who that girl was she just started grinding with him. Thought I try my luck she left before I could make a move.

Lesson Learned: Don't overthink, Cease the opportunity when you see it.

Spotted another girl and her friend. Friend was no wear near as attractive as her. They ended up near the bar and the good looking girl drops her drink. Here my chance: "Looks like you just lost your drink, let me get you another one." She hesitates but says: "okay sure". Unknowing to us, her friend hands her another drink. Me: "aye looks like you got a drink now all you need to do is to dance with me" as i go for her hand. That works too, we start dancing, get her name, what she does for a living but her friend moves away, she say she doesnt want to ditch her friend and leaves. My friend looks at me and says go after her. Sure, find her and her friend I say "aye your friends her me and you can dance together" She introduces me to her friend but seems like her friend isnt too keen on us dancing while she by herself. Get the hint ask for her number, get it, text her the next day, make plans to meet :)

Feeling good about the recent pickup i DM a girl i met a few months back at a party on IG. We spoke for a few hours but didnt get her number, ( I was focusing my energy to get a different girls number at the party.) Hit her up, reintroduce ourselves, talk about a concert we both where at, after building a rapport I ask her out, state the place and sometime after work. This was last week, didn't get a response and IG shows that she has not read the message. Should I hit her up again? Her and her friend where sending me Snapchats the day after I asked her out, but this radio silence is something I didn't predict.

Again would appreciate any feedback!