So I asked this girl out that I've known for a few years. She says she doesn't see the text message I sent her earlier, so we cancel on the night but she offers for tomorrow night.

I give her a time the next day, she says yes but wants to bring a friend. I said "okay let me find someone else to bring then". I didn't find anyone, and 30 minutes before I'm about to meet her she texts me and says she's with 3 guys and 1 girl. - Yes I am now aware I should've cancelled and said fuck no at this point.

I get there, and she's clearly into one of the dudes, but my dumbass thinks they're just friends. Me and the dude did get along pretty well, and had a couple of laughs. At this point, I don't really know what to do since everything feels kind of weird so I said fuck it, bought a drink, and pulled her away from her friends . We're talking, I don't shut the fuck up, and instead give her advice on her life's problems. I change the topic and tell her to come to a show with me and some friends this Saturday. She says she will be with friends that night so "maybe"... Then she says I should text her, and then switches it up and says she'll text me that day. She goes back to bitching about her life and every time I try to bring up something I'm interested in, or anything with my life she doesn't really converse about it with me. This went on for about 15 minutes, and I keep giving her advice as she goes on and on. We suggests going back inside at which point she goes back to talking to her friends. I try to move next to her to talk to her but she moves away again. I grabbed my jacket, and left them to go hang out with some of my friends that were at the same bar. I didn't say bye when I left or anything. I didn't get any sort of text from her asking where I was after I left. For what it's worth though, it seemed like after I pulled her away the guy she was with was avoiding me and kind of pissed.

This always happen when I'm ACTUALLY interested in a girl. I start to fantasize all this bullshit in my head that involves her and let my mind play tricks on me. I start acting nicer and don't act quickly in terms of getting sexual. Before that night, we went out with some friends a few times, and I'm guessing where I fucked up was just not asking her out immediately. I had a feeling she liked me, because one night she was curious if I was going to be at a party. I should have been alone with her ASAP, and made my move. When I actually like a girl though, I feel like I should take it slower. I've been on the other side of this situation where the girl I'm with I don't actually like, but she gravitates towards me. Honestly, if she does come out Saturday night, I'm bringing another chick and giving her ZERO attention. I will not text her first, but if she hits me up I'll let her know I'm there with some friends. TBH though, I don't really mind. She is obviously fucking that other dude. I get over chicks like this pretty quick, and absolutely fucking turned off when they pull this shit. The most embarrassing part of this entire situation is that I actually liked her and she knew it.

I think I went into this thinking my game was better, but fucked up by not telling her how I feel when I was alone with her. Or I fucked up at that party by not letting her know how I feel

BONUS CRINGE: Earlier today I was at work, and talking to 3 really cute chicks at once. My friend walked over and asked how last night went. I told the whole story in front of them, but made sure to mention I wasn't too upset about the whole situation.