So recently I noticed I've got a standard response to when girls drop me suddenly (with whatever excuse), or when they text me and I reply but then they don't respond or don't respond for hours/days. That response is basically "Well, whatever" and I go about my business. Personally I think this is keeping me sane when it comes to the highly unpredictable behaviour/possible testing by women.

Texted a girl who had a thing for me but I couldn't seal the deal at the time coz her ex was cockblocking me. She eventually gets back to me the 2 days later and asks me if I wanted to meet up the next day (I couldn't, had already made plans with my friends). Ask her if she wants to meet up next weekend. Message received, but no response. "Well, whatever. Will ask her again later in the week since it's a week away."

Another girl texts me that she's not going to this picnic thing that she was planning to go to. Tell her some of us are meeting up at the park near her place if she wants to join us (she had expressed HUGE interest in it before she remember her clashing timetable). She then doesn't join us. "Well, whatever. Still here with awesome folks having a good time."

She then texts me asking how the meet up was a couple of days later. I tell her it was chill. Ask her how her weekend was and say I thought she was going to come hang out with us. She reads it, but hours later no response. "Well, whatever. Either she's busy or she's feeling awkward about a completely casual question that I would have asked any of my buddies (male or female)."

Girl who I got some action from drops me after she meets this guy that she really wants to date at a beach party. "Well, whatever. At least I had some fun."

It's taken me a while to get develop this thick skin. What suggestions do you guys have to people who are still developing themselves in this regard?