Women say I'm intimidating but I'm very focused on setting and achieving goals

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2016-12-06T18:04:37+00:00

You need to learn how to talk to girls. You need to:

ask them about them
let them do 80% of the talking
ask open questions about them
just tell them you are self employed

I believe, you may over power them too much, which is why you want them to do most of the talking.

Try to get to their dreams, their goals, their accomplishments. You are trying to get to their Emotions, Motivations, and Character.

Avoid talking about you at any cost.

Big_TX · 2016-12-06T20:49:48+00:00

You are way more disciplined and accomplished than most people of any age and you you've done that at such a young age. You are harder working and have accomplished more than almost any of the girls you talk to will in their lives. And your only 21. There is a pretty big difference between you and them.

Due the the amount of time being an entrepreneur takes and the amount of time you would have had to achieve what you did this makes me think this is more likely a trole post than a genuine one (I'm not saying it is, it's just more likely.)

If you are genuine imagen the difference in chericter between you and who ever you meet. That would be intimidating. Most people your age are struggling or going I to debt in college or both. Going to classes like kids and getting drunk.

So yah dont tell her all the stuff accomplished. Also it is 100x more impactful when people find something cool out about you latter. imagen her finding out you run Marathon after she's known you for 2 months. ThAts way more impactful than finding that out when you meet someone.

Tl;dr don't tell them everything at first just say you are a fire fighter, or you are a fire fighter and work on your side business depending on which you think is appropriate.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-12-06T21:20:04+00:00

Seems like your main issue has to be you don't have enough time for women. I would work in some fun activities like improv, stand up, dance classes, karaoke or clubbing.

I would say you're going to overwhelm her with your resume so instead of saying nothing just replace it with just having fun with her. Feed her bits about your resume slowly, you don't want to OD her.

kalolilo · 2016-12-06T18:56:52+00:00

Yes, women want a man who keeps them safe, takes away her fear of the world, not add fears. Women are quite scared creates already, don't make them be more scared. ;)

Title	Women say I'm intimidating but I'm very focused on setting and achieving goals
Author	uncorkedgecko
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	December 6, 2016 4:02 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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