I'm a 27 year old male catching up on no having sex from 1-25 and I've banged about 14 girls in the past two years.. Some have lead to 2-4 month relationships. I'm in one right now and I like this one because this girl lives really close to my work but she is a cougar. Right now I'm trying to make it so that I can date her and still fuck around but she is the real straight monogomous type. I'm doing a fairly decent job of converting her but I'm on thin ice I guess.

I want to get a girl younger than me since most have been cougars recently (I'm not much of the provider type). I don't want to mess up what I have with this current cougar though because winter is coming and it'd be nice to get into work easily. I'm double guessing myself on if I should fuck this one up or not.

What do you guys advise I should do? Or just sharing your general thoughts or whatever is useful.

Thanks