I'm trying to move things along with a girl but every time I get to the point where it's about to go down she pulls some soap opera type crap and leaves "distraught" as if it's a life crisis. Is my approach to this correct? (Details in comment section.)

This has been going on for months now (about once every 2 weeks) but I never beg her to stay or act concerned about her reasons for leaving. I think she wants me to get emotional and act concerned as to why she is doing this every time. Then of course she does the friend texting thing with me where she texts me about a girl that just offered her to eat her out and she let her, or how she regrets sleeping with this shady dude and she should have known better. But I act aloof about the "unfairness" and just blow it off.

I'm not even chasing her but she wants me as an orbiter I think. She then calls and wants hang out at night then things repeat and escalate then yet again to the point of dry fucking and then the Emmy award comes for best bullshit actor and she says in a real horny sexy voice "I need to get away from you!" and leaves yet again.

This is basic friend zone beta shit I know but I hold frame and don't even try to reach her again after this stuff but she keeps calling and wanting to stop by. Some background that may be relevant. I'm not trying to sound cocksure but she is fly and a year older than me (33) and not in the same social class really. She has a kid and struggles in near poverty and I'm pretty well off with resources available to me because of my family and their social standing. If it wasn't for my family I would be in poverty probably but I'm educated and have connections. And she often picks me up and goes to her chick friends houses for odd reasons just to show me off. (Again I'm not being cocky but when we leave the house she really really delights in the texts that follow and her then replying "no, no, nothing like that, we are just friends" with a look of satisfaction on her face. Such bullshit.

Typing this I wonder why the fuck I even care but she is cool and just maybe (probably) I'm getting played and it makes her feel good getting me worked up only to leave the scene before real action takes place.

Question is basically, "how would you guys turn this into a plate?" Or would you even mess with it? It feels so close and probably is but I'm proceeding with caution atm.