If you watch mainstream movies or listen to mainstream music it tells you how you should treat women in a way that they simple don’t respond to. To make matters worst your friends and family give you advice that they got from those outlets knowing damn well it doesn’t work.

The biggest mistake men make when it comes to learning how to treat women is from other women! 99 percent of women give men advice of how they want to be treated ideally but not actually what attracts and keeps them interested in a guy.

Without further ado her are 7 ways to treat women in which they actually respond to.

1. Be A Challenge! Call her only once or twice per week in the beginning of the relationship. It's good not to be too clingy, but remember, if you wait too long to talk to her, she may think you're uninterested in her and move on. After the first date, call her the following night. Set boundaries and be willing to say no. Reframe from making a woman you just met your main priority. That is the quickest way to lose a woman you just met.

2.Use Your Compliments Wisely. She hears things from men all the time so take your time and make them count. Comment on a talent or interest she has, instead of just her looks or clothes. Reframe from over complimenting a woman you just met as she will know she won you over and will lose interest quickly.

Also over complimenting come off as manipulation because you don’t know her and most women know you are just using compliments as a tool to have sex with her especially if you just met her.

3.Keep The Conversation Light. Joke around and just have a good time -- make her laugh. Don’t go too deep in your conversation too soon. Have some playful banter and tease her a little bit. Getting too into a deep conversation too soon is boring for most women and isn’t something they want when they meet you.

Yes they want to get to know you but do it in a way that is playful and fun for her. It shows that you are a fun guy and not boring like mostly every guy that talks to her.

4. Physically Escalate On Her. Woman want to be touched by men who they are attracted to. I see this mistake with my students and most men when I’m out approaching women.

Women like them but because they want to be a nice guy they won’t touch her and of course the woman loses interest. Yes you want to touch her in a manner that is calibrated and always be aware of her comfort levels while touching her but if you never touch her she will lose interest in you.

Women see it as this guy has no balls, if he doesn’t even have the courage to touch me he probably won’t know how to fuck me right.

Touch also makes a woman’s attraction for you go up. Woman communicate through the physical much more than do so when you do so they know what is up without you saying a word.

5. Seize The Moment. If she's giving signals and you're missing them, it's worse than if you're moving too quickly! Girls complain about how physical guys are, but don't be misled! Once a woman is comfort with you touch and she is giving you signs that she wants you to kiss her or have sex, go for it!

Women want to be seduced but they don’t want to be responsible for the seduction because society says they are a slut if they do so. It is up to the man to take a woman’s signals and lead.

Women are attracted to leaders and if you can’t do it then she will see you as a guy who isn't thus you aren’t fuckable. Sad but very true from my experience.

6. Let Her Be The One To Bring Up Dating Exclusively. Most men try to rush and lock down the first attractive women that likes them. Men with options don’t do this. Guys with options actually are in no rush to get into a committed relationship with women because they have options.

Even if you don’t have any options with women at this point act like you do until you actually get some options with women. I always advise my students and guy friends to not consider a relationship with any woman until you have known them for at least 3 months. Get to the woman before you jump into a committed relationship. It will save you a lot of headache and heartache, I’m speaking from experience on this LOL.

7.Be Confident, Not Arrogant. Know the difference. Arrogance is all about words and putting people down; confidence is all about action and humility. Men who are confident have no reason to brag, boost or try to impress others (men or women). Guys who are arrogant are truly insecure (i.e. Kanye West) and they really do repulse women.

Sure being arrogant MAY attract a few women but it will not get you the women you want long term and it isn’t sustainable. Being confident is rooted in having high self-esteem and something that can’t be easily broken. To get and keep the high quality woman or women you want in your life you have to be her rock emotionally and that is what confident men are not arrogant ones are.

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