Tips to close

spencer9812 · 2016-12-20T08:48:26+00:00

what are you doing after this? do you want to come back to my place?

t1mman · 2016-12-20T17:11:08+00:00

I don’t like the “closing” mindset because it sets you on something to achieve. Thing is, you are dealing with a human; you must ASK And LISTEN, both verbally and non-verbally.

Seduction is all about escalating, showing your intent and listening if other person wants to continue forward or not. Escalate and see the reaction, usually as soon as you have a physical touch, you can go in further by steps and listen to the non-verbal answer. She reciprocates, she moves in, get closer, gets shy, that’s mostly a yes. After a while, you’ll be close and comfortable, and you’ll ask yourself “Should I kiss her?”. Chances are she is already asking herself that question so, just go on and shit.

If you don’t feel at ease doing all this at a party, there’s nothing wrong by asking her to go out for a walk, have a drink at your place, things like that, and escalate somewhere else. When you say “wana go for a walk” to a girl, what you are saying is “I wana be alone with you” in a non-threatening, polite and gentleman manner. What she answers to that is not necessarily a “no, I won’t be alone with you”, but a “considering the current situation, my current state, my own experience and life I lived so far”. You could always exchange contact info and ask her latter on, to do something with you. As long as you don’t force yourself there’s nothing wrong with that.

MindsEvolve · 2016-12-20T17:51:31+00:00

So you're saying "We have great conversation, but then we don't have sex." This is too general. Try to use a popular framework such as: Attraction -> Comfort -> Seduction. How far do you think you get into each phase? What are the interactions like? PM me if you want some 1-on-1 help.

Title	Tips to close
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Date	December 20, 2016 7:09 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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