Can someone help with advice?

GrandmasterM · 2016-12-23T01:05:16+00:00

Not gonna lie, your life doesn't really sound that bad. At least you have a job. You got a divorce? Congrats, you're not tied down anymore! Change your perspective and stop acting like a victim. You either want someone to say "I feel you bro, life sucks" or "don't worry everything will be alright". I disagree with both those statements. Life only sucks if you make it suck; you can choose to improve yourself. Actively look for a better job. Hell, I know people working 20-30 hours a week as waiters and bartenders that enjoy life more than I do running my own business. Get healthy and in shape. If you want a fuck or a potential girl friend then work on your cold approach and just put yourself out there a lot more. Is it gonna suck? Hell yeah, but it'll probably suck less than where you're at right now. I could give you specifics but you could look up cold approach threads anywhere.

Tl;Dr Change your perspective, improve yourself, stop being a victim

MindsEvolve · 2016-12-23T15:38:39+00:00

I'm a big fan of baby steps when you're still in recovery mode. You can very easily and quickly build a huge pipeline of dates with online dating and going to cozier events like meetups geared towards your interests. If you immediately start with cold-approaching and have no problem with that, then great, but I haven't seen that many people stick to it.

PM me if you need help with your overall strategy.

mdigefc · 2016-12-23T22:08:44+00:00

Don't take that shit man. The way you think os usually the way you come across, so you're not helpimg yourslef at all. Positive energy. You don't have to be a bundle of laughs but tou need to accept your current situation and do your damn best to improve it. I was in the exact same situation a few years ago. Then i changed my diet and set some goals for myself. I am still in debt from all those years but it's manageable and i get women more or less whenever i want because i changed my attitude toward myself which helps with confidence and the way you come across, which in turn helps with your career and other people in general. Chin up mate and go smash it, fuck being down, it's hard but it doesn't help at all. Big wide world out there. You're not important. No one gives a fuck. Grab life by the balls and tell it you're not javing it the way it is

Title	Can someone help with advice?
Author	No1988
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	December 22, 2016 10:54 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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