What's up everybody. I hate to be this guy that soo many of you have probably come across on here but if you could give me any advice it would be appreciated. I am a 21 yr. old male and I have never so much as kissed a girl, been on a serious date (never asked a girl out) or anything of the sort (never been in a relationship) etc. These facets are easily the most embarrassing parts of my existence as a human being. I have hung out with a girl one on one but nothing ever happened during these casual interactions so to speak. I have suffered from social and general anxiety for most of my life, and as a result my low confidence and self-esteem are so pitifully noticeable around girls. It really bothers me deep down inside that I have never been able to secure a connection with another girl. The screwed part of it is that I'm pretty sure I'm a fairly attractive guy and I am in excellent shape (not to be too superficial)as I get plenty of looks from other girls especially when I'm away at college and out in public and have even gotten approached in public but I just don't have the balls to cold approach other girls myself..I let my nerves and personal insecurities get the better of me and I talk myself out of it. The problem is I don't know how to be the confident natural person that girls look for. When I drink I am a completely different person. I am afraid I am so inexperienced for my age group that when a girl finds out she will probably kick me to the curb and move on.

If you would like me to share more information please let me know

Any advice and helpful tips are 100% appreciated. Thanks.